Bedside Chat #21: Self-Love September Reality Check

Full transcript of Bedside Chat #21: Self-Love September Reality Check on The Dr. Susan Block Show:

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Lovers and sinners artists and exhibitionist voyeurs and connoisseurs all you children of sex and

We are all children of sex With a capital X can I get an amen?

Can I get an a women? I want to welcome you to my 21st bedside chat of

The corona apocalypse Yes inspired by FDR's Fireside chats and another very difficult time

So I just attended my annual Emmys Documentary zoom party. Yes indeed. Look at Susan blocks mask So we Come up full full screen

another case where it's much more fun in person, of course, but hmm a virtual Emmys party is better than no Emmys party and No, I didn't win an Emmy and I'm not even nominated for an Emmy

The dr. Susan block show is way too sexy To be nominated for an Emmy

But I am a proud member of the Academy documentary division Since it's beginning actually With my friend and HBO director Shari Cookson. She's an Emmy winner and the founder and

original governor of the documentary Division of the Academy of Television Arts and Sciences and Dan Berman Current governor. So, you know, I mean, I feel like I'm part of the Academy family in a way

well the black sheep of the Academy family, okay, I I acknowledge that and Yes, Emmys is is always in September and

September is also the season of Self-love brothers and sisters lovers and sinners. Yes indeed self-love September I Love

Don't you doesn't everyone I mean really we may not all be good at it, but we all love it self-love

Though according to the internet self-love September is really more about noble ideals of self-improvement than the earthy reality of self-pleasure

And yeah, well, maybe that's because it's only been around a few years and like masturbation month has been around since 1994 and is still endorsing the benefits of self-pleasure are kind of

taboo now self-love means many different things and one common

self-love September meme is to quote Accept that although we will always be less than perfect We are works in progress that deserve to be loved. Yeah, that's that's true. That's a good meme, but really kind of trite, okay, and

in my not so humble opinion

if self-love doesn't include a little quality

self-pleasure and Yes, that could be mutual self-pleasuring mutual masturbation. Oh, it's great and Yes, max. Hello max. We're having mutual masturbation right now We're certainly having mutual thinking about your water my water I have water

Water right here with my little long as you have water baby penis straw Yeah, which is hard to drink through My mask but later later. So where was I? Yes

Self-pleasuring and mutual self-pleasuring which we enjoy Yes, we do and We've already been doing it quite a bit for a self-love September. Yes indeed and I feel You know, it's great to eat healthy and exercise do yoga

But you know It's not enough to just love yourself platonically you need to love yourself Erotically That's just my not-so-humble opinion. It's good for you and it's natural

You know aside from grasping tree branches and smartphones These fingers are made for strumming baby Yes, indeed stroking self

Lovin Bonobo thinkers too, that's true Bonobos love to masturbate as do other primates monkeys too and all the apes really do enjoy it because you know, we're built for it and

Of course, there's no reason that you can't go bonobos for self-love at any time of year but Self-love September is a great time for you self-love slackers to catch up. That's right Step up your game

If you haven't self-loved and a little bit well tonight's the night Set the mood by yourself some flowers or a nice vibrator or Or maybe a dildo like my bad dragon dildos

If you're religious you might like Jesus the Jesus jackhammer dildo right here Yeah, you know give yourself a massage tell yourself You're beautiful and mean it really

Don't be faking on yourself. No faking Be authentic with yourself Give yourself a massage it actually works better if somebody else does it, but you know, you can rub yourself And then rubbing leads to rubbing baby

Yes indeed and beautiful self love mm-hmm and Don't forget

You deserve it You do Now that brings me to a question kind of existential political question

Does Trump deserve it? I mean Does Trump deserve self-love? I've been thinking about that because it is self-love September and It's a question I have and my short answer is

No Nick No Not considering how much damage he's done from letting almost

200,000 Americans die of COVID to saying rioting will happen in Biden's America When it's happening now in Trump's America to filleting billionaires and racists to lying What is he up to 20,000 lies? I mean about everything to stiffing his contractors whenever he could

We're now as contractors, but the old days are detailed so lasciviously by Michael Cohen his old personal attorney and

consigliere and his this is my copy of his new book disloyal and Yes, it is a personally signed copy look at that personally by

Michael Cohen himself with a nice and So, uh, yeah, I mean so many things And let us not forget

inflicting us with his peculiar kind of PTSD post Trump sex disorder Ah, but you know, I've also been thinking maybe

if the Trumpis here is This is a good job for him

being a toilet plunger toilet brush if the Trumpis loved himself as

The toilet brush that he is If he loved himself Body mind and soul like you're supposed to do in self-love September well

Maybe he'd do less damage You know a little self-love can go a long way to cleaning your toilet And it might be that Trump D. Dumpty will love himself so much that he'll resign

well One can hope and dream and wish and believe and

Yeah Get back in your container Speaking of beliefs If you live on the West Coast and you don't believe in global warming

Wake up and smell the smoke brothers and sisters We're on fire thanks to a flaming combination of climate catastrophe and human stupidity and

I'm not just talking about the global warming. Although that is certainly human stupidity just Human suicide ecocide But I'm talking about something a little more, you know every day, I guess Like how the El Dorado fire which is kind of near where Bonoboville is was caused

by a Gender reveal party That's right. A gender reveal party where they announced the baby's gender with a pyrotechnic explosion Now this is obnoxious even if it didn't cause a fire which it does

I mean how sexually controlling can a parent be? you know a Gender reveal party says gender is destiny and you're just going to be one of two pink or blue

That's it. No purple gender, you know Gender fluid Gender reveals It's a surprise party

Designed to eliminate surprises, which of course is impossible in human life Because what if your baby girl likes blue? Look at me. I like blue. I mean Yale blue like blue. What if your baby boy likes pink?

panties or nylons Or just a pink tie. I mean by their very nature

Gender reveal parties set you up to fail and that's not counting when they burn down the neighborhood Now of course you procreation fetishes have a right to have your gender reveal parties, but please just Do it with cake

Okay, I mean I love fireworks. They are orgasms for the eyes But not during fire season Which is now firenado season and last most of the year now. I mean

I've been thinking about this as you could probably tell like what is the psychology of somebody who throws a gender reveal party with a pyrotechnic device that Excuses pink or blue smoke. I mean in a meadow that hasn't seen rain in months and months What is that?

Well, I guess It's Fantasy You're living in a fantasy world

Where the smoke is like clouds For babies to roll around on like cupids. Yes And a lot of people are living in a fantasy world these days and an aspect of living in fantasy is

lying or You could say playing up or down Like in excerpts of Bob Woodward's book, which I don't have I'm creating a library of anti-trump books, but I don't have that one rage is what it's called and

Of course featuring the raging Trump bowl shitter Saying he knew coronavirus was deadly and easily spread back in January, but chose to play It down

You know well that really is Wrong to the word play which is a nice word, but what he really means is he lied to the American people Helping to cause almost 200,000 deaths so far

so really this Evil homicidal narcissistic maniac. I guess he needs to be impeached again

But this time do it Right. I know QAnon, which is now making up his base Wow Talk about fantasy. I

mean in the great American QAnon fantasy The Trump is rumpus can do no wrong Hey, I get it Reality sucks

Yeah, especially in these days of fire and COVID fury It Sucks and fantasy is anything you want it to be I love fantasy

I help people to escape into fantasy every day through the erotic theater of the mind Yes indeed, but But you know fantasy I Mean it's great

It's important to get into your fantasies to express your fantasies to sometimes role-play your fantasies But still they're for fun there for relaxation For entertainment perhaps for learning about yourself and your past fantasies are Sometimes a gateway to memory as well as you know the future

The future is based on your fantasies very often but But there's got to be a place For reality brothers and sisters, especially when it comes to the government, you know, the government should help its citizens to handle

reality in my not so humble opinion and Yeah

the Trump crime family described in mafioso like

Detailed by Michael Cohen who's a bit of a mafioso himself They don't even go through the motions of Handling reality. No it's all a

fantasy some people would say a Con and That's the con of reality TV Make us think it's reality by first of all calling it

reality, but reality TV most reality TV is the opposite of reality This is a pseudo mafia soap opera fantasy But this is why the Trump is in the White House. I think big reason why maybe not the only reason

There are a tapestry of reasons, but one reason why is because he's a character a fantasy character an evil character to some a Clown to others a Hero to the Kool-Aid drinkers a fascist to the anti-fascists a big fat

jurists Baby maybe But always a character, you know unlike say Obama or the Clintons or the Bushes who were awful men the Bushes, but

but they weren't characters and Most precedents Have not been this kind of toilet brush character

That we now have in the White House and unfortunately whether you think he's a clown or a Villain or a hero Or just a big baby The media eats it up as entertainment and feeds it back to us

Which keeps him there? You know Like fantasy football This is fantasy politics and it's

now a Reality and the reality is measured in the death the reality is measured in The lack of help for people who really need help right now Yeah, and your tax dollars paying right now our Justice Department to defend

the Trump this rumpus in a personal defamation suit brought by one E Jean Carol a very cool lady one of many women accusing him of rape and And so our Justice Department Run by the ought to be disbarred bar is

Representing him for this Also, meanwhile on the 19th anniversary of 911 which Was yesterday if you tuned in live

Yeah Let's think about it America can afford to spend over six trillion dollars on Disasterous post 9-11 wars, but can't afford to send

It's citizens a few hundred bucks To lower the spread of COVID-19 so people can eat so people can pay rent maybe or

Buy a nice vibrator for self-love September so maybe they could stay home and Stop the spread of COVID Now not enough money for that always money

For more bombs, but no money for The love bombing that we really need Another little reality check for the fantasy lovers fantasy Riddler Roger Stone is now calling for Trump his savior who got him out of jail to

Seize power and declare martial law If he loses the election Watch out brothers and sisters and vote this color blue

right and Let's celebrate self-love September Can't stop that celebration Just cause we got a crazy nation

All right, and if you want to give us a call our number is 626-461-5212 you can also Write to us questions comments on Facebook live So we have to help us celebrate self-love September some fabulous guests

So I'm gonna take down my glitter math and first up Is the lovely asher D? Hello Welcome to the doctor Susan block show and my bedside

Asher D Hi, how you doing? Yeah, now I'm doing well You look lovely So

You are a multi-talented woman and A very sexy woman So I'm sure you're gonna help us to celebrate self-love September Yeah, so what's your favorite way to make self-love

Well, I just basically grab my favorite toy and put it to use My favorite toy Yeah Yeah, well, I call it the rabbit. Oh the rabbit, of course, of course

Yep, that's one of the favorites it's a little too much for me. I like my My Hitachi even though it's a lot bigger, but it goes on the outside But everybody's got their own favorite toys and that's the beauty of self love It's got to do with what you love yourself

So as your D or should I call you D? No, we're just fine. Thank you Okay. Well, let's see. So you are a porn star and You are a bodybuilder an award-winning bodybuilder. Are you not?

Correct That I've been doing this since since day one since 1979. So I've seen the sport come first of all uh-huh to Introducing women into the sport. So that's what 40 years. Wow since 1989 you said

79 79. Oh, well, I think 79 would be 40 years Yeah, you're right. Yeah, since 1979 I'm gonna write that down that is so fantastic and as long as we're talking numbers here I might as well say hey happy

Grandparents day or as we say here in Bonoboville happy gilf day because You look like a teenager must be all that bodybuilding or maybe all that sex, but you are a Grandmother, right?

Correct, that's amazing. How do you do it? Well, I didn't do it my daughter did it. Oh, well that part. Yeah Well, you did it first with your daughter. You had you've had one child or more than one Well, she's got a brother that's eight years younger than her

So she's 30 and he's 24 So, I mean often just being pregnant and then giving birth and then just being a mom Let alone a grandmom Makes a woman get out of shape. I mean, but you it sounds like you're the opposite

Well, I mean, it's it's a good thing that I am and as healthy as I am because then I can spend time with my grandchildren and do things with them and I Took up snowboarding Wow snowboarding so that is definitely a kid thing to do so

You look like a little snow bunny yourself right now in your white top Can you stand up so we can see how hot? I'm sure you look Yes nice long hair and Nice rack lady

Excuse my vulgarity, but hey, you're a porn star, right? I can talk like that But I mean but also nice arm definition. Wow Look at that Amazing. Oh, yes, look at those biceps

And can you turn around so we can see from the back that always is impressive. Well, you've got the hair, but yeah and Look at those arms. Oh, wow. Look at that definition. Put your arms up, you know like that. Yeah, okay. Oh, yeah Wow, that is so sexy

I have so many clients and Fans that just love women bodybuilders and I'm sure you do I'm sure you have more than me because I'm not I mean I do my yoga I try to stay in shape, but I'm no bodybuilder, but you really are so how would you?

What do you say it is about men who love women bodybuilders? What's going on there? Well, it's good to know that they're not threatened You know by women who are strong Muscular and that they still can see the feminine side to them

So there's also too maybe the sense of power and control. Yeah Somebody power over them would be in control of that and that's how they do strong muscular women So are most your fans also bodybuilders or they'd rather sit on the sidelines and eat a pizza while you do the work Yeah, okay

And how about women's fans you have women fans to that more Like you or maybe are they're lesbian or bi Hey, no, I'm not angry. So I'm straight But it's women are actually drawn to this I

Say twice as many as men are because they have expanded the sport to include a variety of categories that come from age to shape height structure The sport used to dictate to us what we needed to look like and reach seems that we were willing to go to achieve that book

Now the sport caters to us. We have women We're not each body. We're not overly muscular not over at this top They're doing that figure. That's more athletic and you have physique That's more like a bodybuilder

And we get it back so athletes All right, so

What is your I mean, we have a little clip that we we're gonna be showing that features you as a bodybuilder as well as Having some fun There we go, there we go, there we go. Oh god

Squeezing We have some pictures of you with medals. What did you win? What are your medals for? Well, the medals were for placing me first second In the division

It could be like women's master's figure Well, I'm a cut figure competitor. I'm not why you build or anything a cut figure competitor Okay, that's an interesting term and you want something for cut figure. I

Can't actually it's Okay, so people are telling me something but they're whispering so I can't hear sit down So I'm asking you to sit down Okay, I guess

Maybe the sound is better when you sit down, okay, very good All right, so So you are a cut figure competitor

Actually, it's just figure a figure competitor And the but cut a cut figure is Considered like a fabulous figure in the bodybuilding world, right? Well, I mean, it's that's not the term

Right, okay, so it's just a figure competitor and so you've won for that and okay Well, cool, and how about when it comes to sex? What are your favorite sex acts? It's really interesting because I have my own in the studio at my little fitness studio As a dungeon. Oh your studio's doubles as a dungeon. Well, that's cool

So tonight we're moving along. We have some other exciting guests So but before we go and we'd like to know where we can find you. What's the best way? Well, you know about Twitter And you do Nuru too, I'm so fascinated by Nuru massage

That's my favorite. Yeah, why is that? Because it's so tactile. It's very tactile very sensuous. It's it's kind of a wet massage. Is that right? Um the aciwi gel that is is very slippery Very slippery, it's not I bet you're really good at that with those muscles and all that control and

Doing that slippery massage. You must be an amazing Nuru specialist. So check her out as your D and You know very strong, but also petite and very feminine, right? How tall are you?

Five even barely Five even. Okay. Well, I'd be a big girl near you, which is amazing But I bet you could you could Wrestle me down because you're so strong

Yes, well, thank you so much for joining us as your D and good luck to you and all your Adventures and competitions we're rooting for you and I can't wait till you come visit us and I can feel your muscles

As your D so Moving right along here on the Dr. Susan block show. We are doing a bedside chat my 21st of the corona apocalypse and And you know, you got to stay home wear our masks

Yes, I have actually several masks because You know one is not enough sometimes especially when one has holes in them So this one is some galaxy far far away and this one is a glitter mask and

I'm just sort of playing with masks until my next guests shows up So, you know, whenever you want to bring my next guest up on the screen Okay, Marina Marina Hello Marina

Welcome to Bonoboville all the way from Bulgaria. Is that right? Yes. Wow Well, you know, that's the beauty of zoom is we can be together No matter where you are in the world, you know as long as you have a phone or Computer or something a device a D?

Vice then that we can be together So it's more fun to be together in person, but zoom does have its its benefits So I'm excited to meet you because you are one of our therapists at the Dr. Susan Block Institute one of our

Sex therapists and definitely one of the favorites of the clients So You've been doing it a while and we'll talk about that in a minute, but I also want to say that you are an erotic artist

You're an artist and lots of things, but we're of course Sex maniacs. So we're most interested in your erotic art and And your nude modeling although you do all kinds of modeling you do some fabulous nude modeling So those are just some of your, you know

Right So what should we talk about first? Maybe your art. Do you have some art there you can show us? Yes, I have These are my brutes

Okay, let's see. So so we have some some volvas that Yes What was that say that again? Vovas are sometimes hidden to provoke

Two weeks ago in the street, I Tried to show them and I said I sell vaginas and a woman said wow, we are the vaginas But most of them are visible Most okay, and what are the squiggle things above? What are those are those?

These yeah What are those? This is also a vagina but still a lie is because it could be the clitter and Also, it could be a path and you can find something on the path But also could be a move with a click

Okay Yes, well, you know technically as my mentor dr. Betty Dodson was constantly reminding me That's not a vagina. That's a vulva a vagina is on the inside like I have my vulva puppet here and the vulva puppet has the labia on the outside here and the clitoris also on the outside and

And then on the inside Which you don't usually don't see but of course if you're a guy You feel it or if you're a girl with fingers or whatever, you know You feel it, but you don't usually see the vagina so yes, those are beautiful

Clown or a crown oh I see Yes Yes, the queen because we should treat our vulvas like queen Absolutely, that's a good thing to keep in mind for self-love September. Did you know September is the month of self-love?

Yes, I knew and for me, it's a whole year of self-love. Yes, they shouldn't be A day when we don't show self-love to ourselves Absolutely, and what's your favorite way to do that? I mean physically Basically, I love going to the gym

Okay doing sports But I'm not like the previous guest, but you know, I have a six pack. Yes, you do. Look at that Wow, very slim and you're like a model Well, you are a model actually, aren't you?

Yeah Yeah, and and you've got quite a beautiful figure and so you go to the gym and are you Do you eat anything special? Are you vegetarian or vegan or I have a very weird diet that makes my family freak

Because a few years ago I took the decision to go roll vegan. Oh Wow, and I eat mostly Processed foods And what does that do?

Fruit and how does that affect? How does that affect your sexuality? My sexuality since I remember myself has always been Very powerful Yes

When what is your first sexual memory that you remember feeling the power of sex? I was three years old And I was pleasing myself with a ball Right. Well, children do that and by the way, this is not an endorsement of getting involved with children that do that at all

Don't do that, but just know that yeah, children love to play with themselves just like children love to play That's just a general thing. Yeah So and they shouldn't be shamed for that. Just don't you join in you adults out there? Okay, but but just accept that the children do do that. So

Okay, and and when did you decide that you wanted to? get into Erotica and sexuality professionally Well, it's it's all started in the childhood. I

Remember that when I was in fourth grade or something I wanted to buy and I bought calendars with naked women and I was very inspired how beautiful they were and My family didn't stop me to buy my mother Didn't ask why she didn't comment much

But she said, okay, if you want to buy buy and then when I was 14 I had a friend with a very beautiful flat and a camera back Then a camera was a luxury and I said, why don't you make a photo shoot of me? I want to see myself like those girls in the calendars

Wow, and very bold of you The very ball because I put it in the One of the pictures. Oh my goodness and in Bulgaria Yes in Bulgaria and I know it's a very conservative country

That's the reason why I decided to become a sex therapist And to study psychology Because I was very ashamed of these explorations Because after that shoot in my teenage years. I was very curious. I wanted to try sex with different guys

With guys from different cultures. I Had a dream to write a book Sex across cultures sex across Yes, how people how men from different cultures behave differently

Sharing my experience men you've met in Bulgaria, but they're from different cultures or have you traveled? I Have traveled a lot around Europe. Yes, oh And do you have a favorite culture in terms of your you know, what turns you on? Italians are very good. Oh, you hear that max

Captain max turn on your microphone. Yeah I'm talking Talking speak Italian in a sexy way Oh

And your name Marina is Italian for the sea or something like that Lake I was named after my grandmother, but yeah, it's an Italian name And so are you single or are you married? Are you I'm in a relationship. I have a boyfriend. He's also an artist All these beautiful room was decorated to buy him for me

That's so nice and it's pink and blue. He does graffiti if you can see very nice very nice and And so I mean he's obviously not jealous of you being

a nude model and we do have some great pictures of you that you sent us a link to that we're gonna show Some beautiful nudes of you. Oh Let's see I'm curious which ones you picked up well We're not gonna show them right now because we're now doing the live show

which is airing on Facebook, but we're gonna edit them in later and And show that version only on dr. Susan block calm and dr. Susan block TV and Bonoboville.com so our sites that's where we show the naked stuff the good stuff Yes, yes, but but no

But you guys who are watching on Facebook, that's where you've got to go you got to go to dr. Susan block calm and And check out the good stuff, but meanwhile So, okay. Yeah, max getting a lot of hearts. Oh, yeah Yeah, well, tell us a little bit about what you enjoy about doing sex therapy with

Our Institute because you are one of our most requested therapists I'm very glad to hear Of course the contacts and the atmosphere that is required to be built because there's a lot of trust And also it expands me

Expands my the way I see sex because most of the things I have heard I listen very carefully after that I analyze and I think and I very much like this Non-judgmental communication and the openness which is Of course, I learned a lot of things

Because Bulgaria is very conservative and sex is still a taboo topic Yeah, and it's one of the problems here because I'm also a school teacher. Oh and the head teacher Yes

Are you what did you say I said you teach high school? Yes, wow, well, they don't know you're a sex therapist do they? No, they don't know but Actually, they always want to talk and ask their questions

they always want to talk about sex and ask things that they cannot ask their parents right and That was my for one of the inspirations and so working with you. I like Of course the stories. Yeah people share that

expand my consciousness because Most of the fantasies I haven't heard Bible hearings to share even my friends Do you ever share fantasies that you hear from your clients? I mean, obviously you keep their on anonymity But do you ever get excited by them and then share that with your boyfriend?

With my boyfriend sometimes he's around But mostly I think By myself, okay, but I like to talk about sex with people and And

Yeah, with other Bulgarians I discuss fantasies But they don't share what your clients offer me. It's a super super interesting In a great way sometimes I I have always wanted I have wanted also to to be able to call someone and just What bothers me or what excites me or how happy I am after three or

Things like that. So I'm glad your your clients are Happy with me because I really work with my heart. I get sometimes I get personally engaged and I mean I Feel a lot of empathy for them

Yeah Well that definitely That definitely is revealed in the way that you talk to our clients and I think that they they admire your curiosity and they value your warmth and

Your artistry, you know being an artist means that You know, you can be creative and sometimes they do call Looking for a creative outlet for their own fantasies It's like they have an idea of something but they need someone to be

Like a guide into a new world for them another thing I just Came up with now is that In these talks

Actually, I remember some of my stories, but I can see them from a different perspective based on The perspective of the clients. I see some of my stories differently So something change the emotion You don't you don't expect that they would turn anybody on but they turn on a client or

Just yes, for example, they when they asked me and I have considered this about a situation and I have considered this Not that interesting but for them it's a super curious and they get turned on or and I say Maybe that was not such a fast It is interesting to to get someone else's perspective and we so rarely do on our sexual

Past our sexual experiences or our fantasies, you know So it's it's great to be able to talk to someone about it. Whether you're the client or the therapist I think we all benefit and we're so happy to have you on our team and Excited about your artwork as well and to learn more about you

so Happy labia day, you know, we celebrated that last week But you know, you certainly have the beautiful labial art there. You sure do And and happy self-love September. Do you have a favorite toy that you use?

My boyfriend's cock, okay, that's a good toy. Do you have a name for it? Yes, but it's in Bulgarian You know, we have this diminutive and I call he's did the penis Chateau like my Instagram is bugging guy is also diminutive in Bulgarian for vagina

And it's this cutie Sounding Okay, you'll have to send me that you have to write that out for me so I can put it in the blog because I'm sure all of our Bulgarian

Viewers will want to know about that. All right. All right. Well, it's been great talking with you, Marina Do we have our other? We have a caller on the phone right now He's a caller on the phone and let me get him on the line before you get him

Doesn't believe in the he thinks that covid is a conspiracy and he wants to know your opinion Hello, and what is his name? What is your name? What is your name? Hello, hi Hi, I don't know your name. What is I?

Can't see oh Cody Cody. Oh, and I have a question for you. Harry Harry come here And so Cody welcome to the dr. Susan block show. How's it going? Going pretty good. Yes Okay, enjoying life. All right. Well, I'm enjoying life, too

Sometimes with my mask on you know, but hey since since we're just here and I'm just talking to my microphone Nobody's near me. I'll just keep it off. But so what is your question or comment? Well, all my comment is What are your views on the whole?

covid because of my views Of OSHA reg Ocha laws that I know from construction Stuff like that and elementary science Okay, well, I'm not exactly a scientist. I do have a degree in psychology, but that's not quite the same

I do respect what I hear from the scientists. I also respect what I hear from People who have loved ones who they've lost to covid that I know So I know it's rare. I

You know, it is true that there's a lot of confusion around it Because it's something new. That's why they called the novel corona virus so, you know, and and there's no perfect way to Kind of escape it

And some people don't die of it. Some people don't even suffer from it, but some people do So, yeah, that's I guess What I think I don't think it's a hoax I think sometimes even our experts can be confused by what's going on

I think the only confusion Frankly is a guy by the name of Trump He's not confused. He's just trying to get reelected Well, that's all the things like also with Joe Biden like Bush has endorsed him and that kind of raised a flag

So I'm ready and Joe George. Yeah, but are you ready? Are you ready to go into the streets and fight the fascist and the Nazis that are driving around in trucks like they do in? Afghanistan With rifles in their fucking hands, is that what America has come to you you said back

Okay, thank you. Um, can I I got my ideas as a as a nerd? And I love documentaries and all that 1942 syndrome K When I say this I'm not saying the virus is a hoax. I'm saying it's blown out of proportion

Well, 200,000 additional people that have died which a study was just done at UCLA and different places When covade came along which by the way came to this country in December Okay, over thousands and thousands and more people came in with respiratory Problems not that my friend lost his

Relative in the nursery home For them a thousand dollars if they were put down that was COVID. I don't know if that was true No, that's bull. That's not that's not see stuff That's can I tell you what my brother did what my brother his work? They all um, so their job told them go get tested

So they all waited in line in their car. So 30 minutes and they sat there. They turned around and they went to Applebee Two weeks later. My brother got a letter in the mail saying he tested positive Okay, but 19 syndrome K Google 1942 syndrome K

That was the disease that they used to trick Nazis from taking Jews and putting them in concentration camps Well, it didn't work for it. Well, it all hit right after Epstein Whoa, are you are you in the QAnon? You sound a little bit of a Q. Are you a QAnon kind of guy? Oh, no, I'm big on George Carlin. Oh George Carlin. Well, we're definitely fans of George

But you know, especially for self Liberties and freedoms for comfort Well, you know, I guess I We're always trading in life

Liberty and freedom Sometimes for intimacy. I mean I certainly am a married woman I trade some of my freedom for love People trade all the time. It's just

What will you trade? I certainly don't see any harm in wearing a sexy mask You know, and I think I think the sexiest people wear masks Well, don't wear it too long. Okay, so if you don't want to wear it too long, you don't stay out too long If you have to stay out a long time and you're with a bunch of people

then it's a good idea to keep your mask on and Take breaks when you're away from people where you can take it down and that's to protect yourself and to protect other people and I I hope we find a vaccine real soon Doesn't look real

Positive in that regard. Yeah The whole mass things like I've done construction. I've warped in asbestos pitch, which is a cancerous material I've had masks on. Yeah, the thing is it soaks through the mass. You go to particles that are bigger than germs Nothing is perfect fiber germs, and I take the mask off. You have sweaty black residue on your mouth where the mask was on

Well, your regulations you can look up the OSHA guidelines to certain mass certain mass Well, I would say this that I would rather have less little spittles in my Face than a whole bunch. Exactly. So it's a question of degree. It's a question of the Only takes one

And and here's the thing is we'll learn more as we go and Obviously, you know, there are places you can go where you don't have to wear a mask So go and there are places where you should respect that the business person Or the the person running the place requires that you wear a mask and yeah, I think

That's right and not assault them like a lot of these these QAnon Trump Thugs do yeah, we we just hope people are bonobo and treat each other with respect for each other and Wearing the mask is part of caring and by the way bonobos can get COVID too Because they have a respiratory system similar to us

This is a real problem folks. I mean, let's put it this way. We're all freaking out because This is not the end of the problem. It's not just a little We have we have, you know, credit committed great great crimes against our mother the earth Yeah, and these crimes are coming to haunt us the chickens are coming home to roost

We got fires all around us here. And where are you calling from the fire thing? Can I say something where we're calling from? Where are you calling from Cody? Iowa, Iowa. Okay. I know like the fire thing is um Before the Native Americans used to start fires

To prevent and minimize small fires the government went in and said no Right. They told them Native Americans. You can't do this. The fires are big and outrageous Yes, ironic that the originals knew what they were doing. They did know what they were doing and They also didn't build a lot of houses in the middle of all those forests

So there's various ways in which we also didn't have 110 degree weather Well, that weather is also caused by human activity That level of crazy weather So we human really for oil and stuff. I think that had something to do with the hurricanes that hit Iowa

Okay. Well, Cody, you are a fascinating guy. We don't agree on everything But we have had a very nice bonobo conversation and I appreciate you calling And uh one more thing before I know one quick thing because I got guests to get to okay Yeah, so bill gates vaccine. So 320,000 women and children in india have polio

Half a million women have um or half a million women in africa can't have children I wondered is god singing money we trust when he's jerking his microsoft cock off in the shower to your tissue and geromex money Wow, that sounds like a elaborate shot after buying the next spot You know what uh, Cody the only thing that I'm worried about because I was born in 1943

In the middle of the nazis and the fascist the only thing I know that's so So the only thing I'm worried about my ancestor, right? So the only thing I am worried about is the nazi and the people behind him like miller Who are in the white house?

Aside from that, it's like either party like All right, who are your ancestors Cody real quick question you said the christians kill Was done by the christians. Oh, so you're jewish I'm pagan now. Oh, you're pagan, but you have a jewish background. Wow. Yeah, I got the jewish

Pagan lawnsman. All right, cody. You got to call us back next week. We love you. I will take care Oh Okay, oh, we we always have too much fun. That's the whole idea. All right vote blue. All right Uh, you know, he kind of I mean, it's true that the corona apocalypse is confusing

Especially when we got a president like we got All right, so oh, we're back with marina and Okay, marina we just had to talk about uh, the

The truth or fantasy of coveted for a minute But we wanted to say, uh, we'd love to have you back on the show You know, uh, certainly love to have you here in bonoboville when people can travel again safely But in the meantime, we'll have you again on zoom and in the meantime meantime

People can talk to you. Uh, and our regular telephone number to talk to marina Or any of our telephone sex therapists or webcam Therapists is two one three two nine one nine four nine seven That's two one three two nine one nine four nine seven

And marina where else can people find you can they where can they find your artwork? People can find my artwork on uh, etsy. I have a shop there recently opened also on instagram Okay, good. You should open a twitter because we love twitter. We're always on twitter. Okay. I will Because in bulgarian, it's not very popular

Yeah, but you're a woman of the world. You are international. You are not just bulgarian But um, it's very exciting and exotic that you're there in bulgaria. It's exotic to us anyway And most americans like bulgaria I had a professor and I have um Some acquaintances that they are in love with bulgaria. So I'm falling in love with bulgaria as I talk to you for sure

All right Okay, gotta go You take care All right, thank you. Bye. Bye

Pleasure gobinobos All right, let's talk. Do we have venessa? Venessa vixen Last but not least

Yes, definitely not least look at this Sexy woman beautiful such a sexy sultry blonde. Yes So uh, so you are an erotic entertainer. I know you're a cam model with um cam 4. Is that right? Yes, yes. Yes. Yes cam 4 is my cam platform

And um, I represent them so well. I love them so well everyone that works there is absolutely amazing And they're giving me so many opportunities that Just um, I just don't believe I would have had it anywhere else Well, that's great. Well shout out and uh and kudos to cam 4

All right. Yes, and uh, so you uh, do you also do scenes clips or you're mostly do camming? Well, um, you know when I decided to get into thanks to COVID The adult industry um, it was just um There's just a second decision and I just had to venture down every possible adult industry avenue I could and I have

And um, I'm excited to say that I came out to LA for a couple weeks in efforts to find an agency and um three days before my two-week trip was over um Robert at 101 modeling agency one's helping me and um porn modeling agency And um, he signed me with them

Wow, congratulations Thank you. It seems very very very big on earth. What's the name of the agency again? 101 modeling agency 101 modeling agency. All right. Very good. Well, you got to put that up on your twitter So we can all see. Yes. Yeah. Good for you. Well, that's very exciting and uh, and so you're you're

Talking to us from the midwest. Is that right? I'm in Denver in Denver. And is that where you grew up or did you grow up somewhere else? Ohio and Florida Oh, okay

And so, uh, by the way, happy self-love September. Did you know that that's What September is it's for self-love Oh

Yeah, and you certainly inspire a lot of people to do some self-loving and I'm sure you do some of your own Every day And what's your favorite way? What's your favorite way? Are you just a fingers girl or do you have um toys

Yeah, um, I inspire people Person to person with the agency that I work for now at night I am a private dancer by night with um Denver ladies A private dancer

Wait a second. Yeah. So we are a Non-full service all legal as grid agency. Okay. Now that was a Tina Turner song I'll be your private dancer, right an old song. See that dates me. Yeah, but uh, but it is a great song It's timeless. Yes. And so what do you do as a private dancer to keep it legal or to keep it sexy?

Sure, um, I offer a new strip tease a central body boy And a switch rub, which is where I massage my client my client massage is me Okay, so you can do the massage Uh, well, it's a rub. It's a rub. I'm not a I'm not a massage therapist or

Legally massage therapist. So I offer a switch rub, right, right? You got to learn that new roux like our other guest azure d does the new roux massage. Have you ever heard of that? No, I'm interested. That's pretty wild slippery stuff

So, okay And uh, so when did you decide you wanted to get into the adult entertainment biz? How did you decide? Well, um prior to COVID um, I was a moving contractor and Then I got pregnant

Man, then I worked at a tannings one where I could bring my child left as she was born and then COVID hit and I searched on my phone cam from phone because at that time I didn't have a Um webcam and I found cam for platform. So I started on my phone um, you know, I used to be completely debilitated by the camera literally so

I started doing makeup live on facebook and that's how I Got comfortable with the public speaking thing and now I have sex on camera. So I show that fear who's boss Wow So you have sex so that means not just masturbation but actual

Like with a sex partner No Look at those. Wow. That's a lot of uh toys Well, I asked what you use for your self love september. I mean that looks like

September october november december every single month you've got represented there Yeah, legit. Um Oh, yes Yes

Oh my god And you know, um, my greatest my greatest accomplishment Well, um, you know cam 4 has offered me a 60 minute interview Which I'm waiting for that to all happen, which is about becoming a cam girl post-covid 19 and um,

I made a goal I personally have decided as a business woman to do some personal upgrades and It's nice to be Exact and I made my goal with my agency

Um to make that happen. So I'm headed to camcun september 29 from the surgery day after her second um, and um, I'm getting Scysties and a pricillin butt lift. I'm super excited to show all that off. Wow. So you're going to can to To get plastic surgery. Is that what I heard or

Yes, wow, and I want to shed a positive light on the adult industry. I want to shed a positive light on Upgrading your body You know interesting interesting Well, you know, I think everybody should do what they want to do whether it's um,

Get a butt lift or you know get a sexual reassignment surgery Whatever you want on the other hand I do think you know, you should think long and hard before you get surgery But it sounds like you've been thinking about this for a while and this is your choice

By the way, I just want to say I think you're just absolutely beautiful the way you are But I also understand that a lot of women I mean, I am a woman too and I get it that you sort of want to do whatever you want to do But I just want to say you're absolutely perfect. So there's no need but thank you if you want to do it

Go ahead and I'm sure your plastic surgeons will I hope they do a good job But the top earner on my campsite Vanna Faye, she is my now friend I'm good to be with her when I go to camcune. She's had

Some work done by this surgeon. So I know personally from one who's Used him and I'm very actually close with the assistant as well. Her name's robin. She's great They'll teach great care of me when I'm there. So all of this I have to tell you this All of this has inspired me to want to do a documentary

Ah All right. Well before you go off and and get your body changed Stand up and turn around for us so we could admire what you look like now Sure. Um, I can't take my bra off, right?

I mean You could if max turns this camera around max you want to turn your camera for a minute. Yeah now you can So you guys who are watching on facebook you should watch on dr. Susan block dot com slash live

And then you would see the lovely incredibly Adorable and beautiful Vanessa vixen topless

So here's the all natural before I Yeah I will I will definitely have you back for the um the after this is the before and what a

Cute butt a cute little butt. Yep. I you know They say I like big butts and I cannot lie. I like little butts and I cannot lie and that's a cute one Yeah, I love women I I love men, you know Yeah

So I'm a true pansexual thanks to camming. I've realized I'm attracted to transvestites as well I am the pansexual I are people for Who they are um and not their gender or their race Or their age. I love

souls Nice nice. Well, I do love the term pansexual. I mean it essentially means bisexual, but it's kind of a More olympic term. It's uh, it's And also for

And the bonobos, you know about bonobos they are the Thank you Make love not war chimpanzees and they their latin name is pan paniscus So, uh, there are the original pansexuals and they have sex

with You know all all across the genders and uh different Boundaries, uh, so you're definitely a very bonobo

human A bonobo sapien and it's a pleasure to connect with you Really, um such such a wonderful thing to celebrate Self love september with you

And thank you give inspiration to our viewers To uh to celebrate and uh, where can we find you? Where can people find you? Um Sure, as you know, um camp board.com slash premium vixen

um Also twitter at my venison vixen instagram My underscore venison underscore vixen

And um, I will be Doing a self filmed documentary unless by the 29th I find a cameraman to assist me to camp in which

I'm still searching on sexy jobs, which is a platform to find people in the industry Great and And we're excited to uh, you know follow your documentary and your progress And uh, thank you. I mean

We're we're here for you to continually report on how you're doing. All right. Thank you. Okay, venessa vixen Then Yes, we're so excited to make her acquaintance on our 21st bedside chat of the Corona apocalypse. What a sexy gal already very sexy. I don't know how she can be sexier, but I guess

She's gonna change so it does make it kind of exciting and a mystery to see how she'll change and uh, and what what the results will be and We will follow along and get back in touch with her after she comes back from cancun And is healed properly, you know. All right. Good luck to you venessa vixen and happy self love september

All right, bonobos. We are almost at the end of another great bedside chat And um, and we're excited that ana is back. Whoa, and and we have a new uh, bonobos I was gonna ask. Yeah, is he around is our new But while we're getting him I

Hello, hello while we're getting him. I have a message actually is for bill gates and uh All these uh billionaires and the guy at amazon There is a ship Bezos Bezos. There is a ship

off the coast of yemen That is about to become A disaster like we haven't seen it's holding 80 million barrels of eight million barrels

Of crude oil which has deteriorated the ship is the ship Is about to sink the oil is about to spill the the oil spill means that Uh The the people will not be able to fish anymore

Thousands and thousands of people will be affected Um, and here's the stupid thing right here. Let me tell you It would cost 20 million dollars to remove the oil from the ship

And because the oil is deteriorated it will only sell for 40 million So now the people in yemen and the other people they all want to know what's going to happen with the profits of The oil which is about 20 million dollars after you unload it, right? Okay, all you rich fucking people

You got 20 million dollars to save Thousands and thousands of people To not starve children and also not just the people but the ocean and the oceans and the fish and

And all of that Why don't you just take fucking 20 million dollars and get this oil off of there? You buy yachts for 150 million Right what pollute the ocean

so You know pay a little back Remember pay a little back because I you bezels I make you so much money. Oh, yeah, you can't even believe it and uh

You know microsoft as well. So do me a favor go save this ship. Please please and here's our new member Oh, where's the mask you have a mask, uh, Anna Okay, here's our new bonobo, and he's actually a pomeranian say hi Hello, hello

And his name is chico Hey chico He's so cute He's ridiculously cute and obviously he's a model

We should get him a job on cam4 or doing webcam for us. No He could be a therapist. I'm sure look at how nicely he poses. Yeah. Yeah, right. All right Okay, okay, so, uh, let's Uh, I guess we're about done

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Which is more than we can say for the trump toilet brush Uh, and uh, and you know folks You gotta Vote blue

Yes, indeed vote blue and now we have a new book out by Michael cohen the lawyer we have the niece's book. We have uh, you know the former security chief Um, so many people just want to say what a dipshit this guy is and uh, And

I mean, it's so obvious. Can we please please Get back to some level of reality and vote blue and get them out And I know the blues are not perfect by any means and believe me once they get in If they get in I hope they get in and then I will be on

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You know, not just for president, but down the line mcconnell's got to go All of them have got to go and uh, yeah, it's just a lesser of two evils thing And that's what we got to do and we also got to celebrate self love september Yeah

You know, it's a perfect time during the coronapocalypse to make sweet self love To yourself. I mean, uh, you know Gotta do it blue all the way down the line juxtas Yeah, blue all the way down the line. Thank you juxt

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