Kinbaku Bondage and Holiday Hot Wax

Full transcript of Kinbaku Bondage and Holiday Hot Wax on The Dr. Susan Block Show:

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Brothers and sisters, lovers, artists and exhibitionists, lawyers and connoisseurs, professors and porn stars,

doms and subs, all you children of sex. We are all children of sex. You know, we may or may not be children of God.

Jesus Jackhammer rising. We don't know which God is the right God. I mean, some people think they know, and who am I to disagree? But I don't know. Okay.

One thing I do know, until we start cloning ourselves, we are all children of sex with a capital X. Can I get an amen? Amen. Can I get an A-women?

A-women. Oh, yay. Women. And yay men. Yeah, yeah. And yay bonobos.

Welcome to Bonoboville, where we are broadcasting live from the Dr. Susan Block Speakeasy Cathedral in the church of Bonoboville.

This is the womb room. And yes, it is the holidays. And yes, Trump's areas.

He's a little devil. A big dick with a small penis. And his former national security adviser, Michael Flynn, has succumbed

to the Mueller probe. I love that word probe, right? Sexy. Probe. You know, or it can be like really crazy like it was last week when we had Spanx giving

and we really probed the Trump turkey with those strap-on dildos. Anyway, yeah. If it's not consensual, it can hurt. And yeah, I'm sure it's not consensual with the members of the Trump crime family

that might also soon be getting probed. So we will stay tuned. But in the meantime, here's... Got the same look?

You know, the problem is that they passed that tax bill in the middle of the night. That's like, I mean, to me, that's like, you know,

like that Bill Cosby thing where they drug you and then they fuck you and it's not just a probe, it's a rape of the American people. In the middle of the night,

everyone was sleeping and they passed this tax bill. Oh, which... Oh, there is one good thing about it. It's...

If you have a jet, then you can get a tax deduction for private jet maintenance. Oh, yeah, of course. It's very important.

It's true. You can. That's in the code. Okay. It costs so much for that jet.

But if you don't have a jet, well, you know, then, yeah. No lube for you. You're just getting fucked

non-consensually by the devil. Not just a pat on the tush here we're talking about. This is real rape, you know. Serious.

Rape of your wallet. You know, shackling us to a... What is it?

$20 trillion debt. I mean, I thought the Republicans, the Repugnicans, were the party of, you know,

fiscal conservativeness. No, no, no. Nah, just spend it all. Just spend the millennials' money.

Forget about them. Ugh, ugh. Beat his balls. Keep him gagged

on the Dr. Susan Block show. The orange menace will stay gagged. And he's still wearing his Puerto Rico shirt

because he is just such a menace in Puerto Rico throwing paper towels at people that need help.

So, you know, shackling non-consensually is a terrible thing. And that's pretty much what

our Senate has done to us. It's like domestic rape. Because there are Senate, right?

There's supposed to be our public servants, but they serve, you know, their corporate overlords.

People are afraid of artificial intelligence, AI, that will be like a robot

taking over the world, but you don't have to wait that long. The artificial intelligence of corporations that are not human

has already taken over. And there are inhuman machines, bottom lines, you know, that just created this tax code for us.

So, anyway, this is being shackled in a way that is just blah. We have to do whatever we can

to break these shackles somehow. But sometimes shackling can be fun. If it's consensual and with care.

Love is a good thing, but, you know, love can go both ways. So I don't always say love. And, you know,

it might be a dominant mistress or a master that ties you up

or handcuffs you or shackles you to a four-poster bed, 50 shades,

only much better written. And then again, it could be that you're gagged. That's a form of bondage.

Or, Max, you are being heard, everyone. Here's you whispering. It's sexy, it's sexy.

Whisper into my ear, something about I have you shackled wrists and ankles, blindfolded

in a bed, or maybe strapped down to a medical examination table, you know? Some people, like,

have a medical fetish where you are often strapped down. And there's all kinds of role-play that people enjoy

that is an imitation of a non-consensual situation, which is one of the reasons why consent is so vital

to get when you do things like this, because it plays with fear. It plays with your

vulnerability with your inability to move, you know?

So you got to know what you're doing, and you got to do it with someone who knows what they're doing, especially the DOM.

I mean, in a way, the submissive should know what they're doing, too. But the DOM has got to know what they're doing.

So, you know, since we know you're interested in a little holiday bondage play, you know?

It's perfect stocking stuffer, some handcuffs, velvet line, leather shackles.

Then you really need to learn a little something, and so we have some incredible experts here tonight,

including Professor Oni, who is a real professor. Welcome to Bonoboville.

Thank you very much. It's very nice to be here. You are not a professor of bondage, though. Well, it depends on what

day of the week it is, actually. There are times where I do teach at events where people do call me professor. Right, right, absolutely.

And you are an expert, but you earned a doctorate in audiology. That is correct. And

master's degree in education. Absolutely, yeah. All right, and you are an educator. And you're a kingster.

I am both, and all of the above, yes. Okay. And I met you at Adult Con. That's correct, yeah.

Of all places where I delivered the Bonobo way of great sex. You know, it's a book.

And it was a talk that I did at Adult Con. And then I kind of ran around the booths. And I went to the booth

of the lovely Riley Reyes who is a very Bonobo porn star and very sapiosexual

and just a wonderful gal. And so you were at her booth, so we met. Correct, yeah.

And I invited you here. And I appreciate that. It was a good day. And it was really nice to meet

more people who understand that sex is one of those things that we do to make us better people.

It's really, really nice to see somebody getting out there and helping people understand that sex is good for us and good for

our psyche and our minds. And if we get rid of the shame, boy, we can have a lot of fun. Well, I always had a feeling that that was true.

And then I encountered the Bonobos. And they showed me a very close to human

society that has a lot of sex and empowers the females and

the males are happy and they don't kill each other. So it's amazing how that can work that way.

Well, I always find that if I have a lot of sex, there's a lot of lube involved and it's hard for me to pick up a gun when I have lube all over my hands.

Yeah, too greasy. That's true. Shoot the gun between your legs. You can do that with lots of lube. We'll talk about the gun between your legs

a little bit more in a little while. I've heard legends about that. But I want to introduce your lovely

colleague. Lola Fay is here. And Lola Fay

is visiting from South Florida. And we're very excited to have you here. Lola, you are

a kingster yourself and a porn star and adventurer. Exhibitionist.

All around exhibitionist. Well, you know what? I mean, I know it's a little chilly here. It's winter.

It's almost the solstice which is why one of the things we're going to talk about and do is hot wax

a little fire to chase away the cold. But perhaps you would take off your wrap

and show us your latex outfit. You want to stand up and model it for us? Let me get out of the way here.

Green thing. Very sexy on your very slim body.

Yes. Wow, look at how they make them in South Florida.

Very chic. You're like a model but so petite. Yeah, you are a model actually, I guess. Are you a model?

I mean, I started all freelance modeling before I did porn. Freelance modeling and that led to porn?

Would you say that was a gateway drug? Yes and no, I would say porn was more of a gateway drug to porn itself

because you know, nude modeling once you're nude on the internet, you're naked on the internet whatever is going to bar you from being nude it's going to bar you from doing porn

so I just... That's one way to look at it. Yeah, absolutely. So once I kind of came to that concept

and there were all these different things I wanted to try and only in the setting of like a porn set would you really have a truly

safe and negotiated experience. Mm-hmm. Well, you know nowadays with Hollywood

just hemorrhaging from all of this non-consensual squeezing and touching

and all, you know, maybe a porn set is one of the more consensual places in Los Angeles so

we'll talk about that more but I want to introduce the rest of my guests who are sitting here on the room room stage including

the lovely amazing Christine Dupre Christine of course

is a former penthouse pet, a photographer the author of Hot Romantic

And... Yes, okay, well I didn't get the subtitle but I did get the main title so that's pretty good so and

you are also a an erotic wrestler, I got to get that in. Erotic wrestling, that's kind of the wildest part.

Yeah, beat up the men. Beat up the men, interesting well that came out right, how do you feel about that?

When I look across the room here and I think would I like to get beat up? Okay.

Okay, why not? I know she's serious. It's fun beat up. Get black eyes with the boobs.

Even more. A lot of people who identify as dominant say, I don't do this and I don't do that and I don't do this

what I do is I make decisions about what I want to do and that's a dominant act and so if you take off your clothes and you want to hit me in the face

with your gorgeous tits I think that's okay. I'd be okay with that. She might do that.

I think that was a hint that you could do that. Just let me take my glasses off first because otherwise I won't be able

to see them later and yeah, that's fine. I don't get really tied up in that's a pun.

In the labels of who does what and where if you are a dominant person and you're making decisions about what you like to do

then it's a dominant act and I think that's a big thing for a lot of women who are switches or who are dominant who like say for

example to get tied up. It doesn't mean that you're now suddenly a submissive it means that you've made a choice to have an experience that involves this thing

called rope and so I've tried to make a point in my kink career of being that not asshole guy that doesn't say

well now you're my sub... You're just a dominant person, I'm a dominant person if we want to do something fun and sexual together let's not worry about

who's in what position let's just do that thing that's fun. I love it sometimes I like to be in control and sometimes

I don't like to be in control then I don't have to think. It can change from moment to moment. Absolutely that's when the hot oil

and the slippery stuff gets handy because then you can slip back and forth really easily. Do you smack people with your big boobs? Yes

at my bachelor party I would always meet the bachelor and go up and say hi nice to meet you and then and give them black eyes with my boobs.

I use to smack people with my dick and now with the wrecking balls I put teeth out so I have to be careful. Okay I knew we would get back

to talking about the gun between your legs. You brought it up. You started... Cox not Glocks baby.

Where did you find that? Oh you found that on Twitter didn't you? What? Dicks with abs.

There's your cock. Dicks with abs. Somebody had an app where you could put abs on people

and a bunch of us were sitting around after fetish con and said I bet you could put abs on your dick and so of course I did

and there it is. So the abs are photoshopped but the balls are real. The wrecking balls are real.

The balls are real. The balls are real. It's artistic angling of course because I'm a photographer.

And this is the first time you two are meeting but you're a porn star. Now you've seen my dick. Now you've seen his dick so there you go.

It's pretty savage, it's pretty intense. I mean there's abs on it and there's a belly button. Exactly. The belly button is really what makes it. Right.

A belly button on a dick. See of course now I'm going to have to go visit my friend the body modification guy and have some implants put in

so I actually have abs. Yours is too tiny for that. We're going to get some SPH in there. Okay so now

we are going to introduce Phoenix Dawn and she is our new bonobo

my new assistant and Hales from Queens, New York and she's here

for the first night. We're excited. Welcome. I'm also from New York but a little higher up the

upstate. Well it depends on where you're from. If you're in New York City then like the Bronx is upstate. I'm from Poughkeepsie so not too far up there.

Poughkeepsie. You know what WC Field said about Poughkeepsie? I was in Poughkeepsie once and it was closed.

Isn't Vassar in Poughkeepsie? Vassar College is in Poughkeepsie. It used to be Yale's sister school until they got sisters in Yale.

Yeah exactly. My dad's pharmacy was two blocks around the corner from Vassar. Okay so you drugged all the girls?

Absolutely. Absolutely. Well you know some people

say that BDSM is its own drug in that

you know you don't have to take anything synthetic or even smoke anything

which we're all for actually but you don't have to do any of that to get high because of the nature of the

the activity. Absolutely yeah the intense physical sensations will actually

elicit oxytocin and endorphins and all kinds of dopamine stuff in your brain and so

we like to make parts of the body drip including the brain and that's one of my favorite places to get nice and wet and drippy

is a brain because if I can figure out what activities or what sensations make different parts of your brain work

then I can engineer an experience and that's where my nickname comes from the endorphin engineer.

The endorphin engineer that's me oh gosh I'm the original endorphin engineer okay

well I'm the mistress of the airwaves so there you go we could be a superhero team well we could

and we will be tonight I'll be your sidekick how about that you know I mean you're more than a kick in the side

you're my you're my illustrious guest there we go I'll take it and why don't you bring some of your

toys up here and sit on the bed and talk to me and maybe your lovely lady will sit on the other

side of me come on up here and bring your microphone and this is Lola

now you're just meeting for the first time tonight in face to face in a virtual reality in a carnal way so to speak

yes we have interacted a bit on the Twitter and we know a lot of the same people

and we are both from Florida and so it's there's a lot of that kindredness there but yeah it's the first time we're physically working together

so what do you think you're going to get married well I don't know see here's well I don't know I'm going to ask you

you know here's the thing Lola is a consensual non-monogamous as am I okay and that's different

than being a polyamorous well I think it's a more general term and polyamory is a construct

of consensual non-monogamy and I am sort of this guy who is a very good secondary partner

because I don't really get into the day to day thing so I don't really care what you call your consensual non-monogamy

if you want to call it poly then I'm poly and if you want to call it just open then I'm open and whatever so until I get to know somebody better

and know their words I use that global term and then they can jump in and say yes and I am Oli or whatever

how would you define your lifestyle I would say I'm a new polyamorous I first

got into the idea of polyamory about a year and a half ago so integrating that into my relationship that was already

two years at that point was interesting and what about BDSM I mean it's pretty much your life's

work and play is it so for you or more of a side thing it's definitely my work

actually I'm usually the dominant one I do porn but my main income is domination private domination

yes so you're the porn star that dominates the men won't let them have you

sexually it's essentially the forever cuckold right they get to watch you

in your porn with the bull and they get to be the cuckold that you dominate

and so you like to lead them around on a leash or stuff them like we did last week with our Trump turkey

go all over the place okay so you resonate with Professor Oni's concept of

you know you can be dominant and just kind of make the decision to

let yourself be tied up absolutely and also just to be you know perfectly frank

I said hey you know what I need a demo bottom for this gig demo bottom

and so part of this is a modeling gig I think for Lola and part of it is getting to know me and part of it is

a great promotional opportunity for herself so she's a very bonobo kind of a person you seem to be

let's get some interesting people together one of the things I think I do really well is put people together I'm not in a position

in my vanilla life where I can be that porn guy that I want to be but I can be around a lot of porn people and put good porn people

and good sex people and good sex education people together so it's kind of fun for me and I don't even take 10% so it's pretty good

well I appreciate that so so great so now you're sort of

best friends and you're sort of strangers at the same time you know each other it's an interesting phenomenon of the 21st century where you

get to know each other kind of sapiosexually in the mind and then the bodies collide

heavenly bodies collide and yeah I mean I guess you've seen each other you're not

those kind of people that show different pictures than who you are no well see I buy porn

I'm one of those guys who actually pays for porn wow good for you can we have a hand for the hashtag pay for your porn

we have his email address my email address ony at onysensei.org I think we actually have

but I have a lot of friends who work in the porn industry and just like I don't like to go to work

every day and not get paid I don't like them to go to work every night not get paid and I really enjoy masturbating

and watching a friend of mine do something cool that excites me even if I never have sex with them because when I'm masturbating to

their porn I'm actually having sex with them and they're in a sapiosexual way so in that regard I have already done horribly dirty things

to Lola even though I just met her it's amazing the stains on my wall

just due to you wait until you see the scene I did yesterday okay I heard about it

and I'll go buy more loop there's a lot of virtual sex going on and I personally think it's great because

sex is what brings us into the world it's true and it's reproductive it's procreative but we've got way too many people

and so sex has a lot of other purposes and those being recreational and

relational just relating it's a way to relate and so it's great to

maximize your sexual potential in regard to these other things that are much friendlier towards our

mother the earth absolutely yeah so that was our even though some people call them

perversions and of course when they're done consensually they're not good you've got to do them consensually

and yeah masturbating is one of those things I'm so pro masturbation I'm like masturbate but you know

don't masturbate in front of people who are kind of interviewing for a job or something okay

well I mean my typical thing is when I meet a porn star at an event I'll go oh my god hey I'm such a big fan

I masturbate to you all the time and when I say that to Riley the first time she's like thank you very much that means that my work is doing

what it's supposed to do that's the goal of that work so we have just met in that regard but I've been

a little cyber stalking you but not that much just a little well she looks like she doesn't mind too much

she doesn't mind too much that's why I'm there she's here exactly so and you know the other thing that's really

interesting about two people who resonate either all of the time or part of the time when the dominant spectrum is we have an opportunity then to

Skillshare and so one of the agreements that we have about tonight is she's going to help us out and

I'm going to help her out later so we're going to do some bondage skill sharing at some point probably when I'm down in Florida and

kind of get her skills up to where she wants them to be and that's that way we're helping each other so you can tie up your

bad boys yeah okay well you already tie them up but you are a king, king baku

tie her up her yeah so that's an interesting the words are really interesting there's a guy also in south Florida

West Palm Beach named Jimmy Tattoo and Jimmy is a trained historian and he went to Japan to find out what

all these words were about and what he found out was a lot of it had to do with westerners going over there and finding out words that they could

sell so in Japan it's just kind of it's bondage you're tying people up but is it different than shibari?

it's really not from that perspective in our world it is because people are saying well there's bondage

and that's kind of like the dam's own distress stuff and then there's the Japanese influenced style that's a little bit more intricate and a lot of people call that shibari

sort of macramé like macramé on the body yep and then there's the shibari for the intent of sex

and that's what a lot of people call king baku and so I don't really care what anybody calls it it's like you want to call

your relationship Polly or open or whatever just give me the words that you use and I'll respect your words and I'll use those words

well I like words you know and I like them to sort of have an agreed upon meaning even in the Trump era where words really mean totally different things

alternative meanings but yeah okay so I can use kin baku as bondage

for sex and we're good and that's cool and so we'll call that kin baku and the idea is that it's intentionally

for that and then a big part of what I teach is visualizing, voicing and communicating intent

because if I want to tie Lola up and my intention is to degrade her and her intention of me

tying her up is to have sex that we are at mismatched intentions and it will be fumbly and it will be

dissatisfying for both of us and it might be that she wants to get tied up for sex and I don't want to have sex because I'm an idiot

looking at her and I would be I would be better I would serve her and myself better

to say well now that we know those intentions are not matched let's find somebody that's a better match for you and so I

used to be kind of narrow in my bondage thinking and now it's like hey you know what if we want to spend some time together

and there's rope in the room then we just did bondage alright and so one of the things I teach

a lot is don't get tied up and don't get stuck in all the detail just have a consensual

intentional communicative sexual experience with your partner and use rope some way so that it enhances that

okay so that's kind of what we're going to talk about tonight so tonight are we going to do a rope

scene first and then the hot wax? sure we can do that and so why don't you describe what you're going to do

and what people should keep in mind if they want to do something similar sure so what I would

typically say on our first date is hey you're really cute and I like you a lot and I'd like to have sex with you

and then I would then say and what that means in my mind is penis and vagina sex here's my testing

protocol here's my agreements with my other partners about barriers what are yours and we get all that safer sex stuff out of the way

because that's really sexy because now we already know where that playground is and then I say and by the way

what I really really like to do is tie you up a little bit so that I have more control over your body while we're having sex

how's that? let me ask you a question this girl that you just met you're going to say what

to her? I'm going to say I really find you attractive and I'd like to have sex with you tie you up

but they've had a lot of communication over the end of time it's not like in a bar and that's a really

good point I don't date outside my tribe so I don't meet people in the supermarket

and even engage with them that would be a funny scene but I'm really really aware about consent

and for me to expose somebody in the vanilla world to this is potentially non-consensual

so what I really want to do is I use a lot of dating sites I use OkCupid and Tinder and FetLife

to kind of narrow the field and my profiles are very very clear about who I am, what I am how I interact

and so if you look at my profile and go this guy is a creep then go find somebody else because for you I actually am a creep

but maybe for somebody else I'm the creep that they want so I will

when I meet that person then it's like okay now let's actually have a real honest conversation and so then my real thing

I want to know is when you're having sex what does rope do to enhance that experience for you

and what do you think about that have you had sex when you've been shackled or tied with a rope

nope I've been tied up but I've never had sex at the same time well general PIV sex yeah you've had

you've done some things I've done things where I've been tied up and had wax poured on me and had like a vibrator in my clit

or being finger banked but not PIV sex okay PIV for those of you who don't know your initials

is penis in vagina where's Jesus I'm glad you told me that here's Jesus and the vulva puppet

and by the way this is the season of the baby Jesus butt plug exactly okay back into the vulva puppet

both of you see she's getting double banked she's getting double vaginal she's from God

that's a high price that's a premium scene it's like a $2,200 that's good

so that's good information for me because then I say okay well maybe

that's too many things to put together all at once so then we say okay let's have a sexual experience that's kind of within your

realm of experience because the first day you don't want to do too many new things and maybe it comes down to

we'll do the rope and the wax and the finger banging thing as foreplay and then we dig all of those extra pieces out

and then we just do the PIV thing and then if that really went well then we can add those little other things to the PIV afterwards

got all that Max that's well come on we're gonna be together listen we're gonna be together for 20 or 30 minutes

so we got plenty of time 20 or 30 minutes I have a fucking heart attack take a note

as I've gotten older I've slowed down a lot I'm not in a hurry to do anything and sometimes I meet people and we have these conversations

and it's three years before we actually do anything now that's important to talk about slowing down because yeah it's true

age slows us down but if we really want to get into BDSM and not hurt each other by accident we should slow down anyway

even if we're young I mean you gotta be over 18 but if you're young and you've never done anything like this

then take it baby steps absolutely it's like learning any other skill if you wanted to run a marathon

you don't do that 26 miles on the first day you stretch, you walk, you jog a little bit and there's a lot of community out there

that can help you find those baby steps and when I started with Rope my mentors showed me one thing and said okay go do this

for six months and don't look at anything else that anybody else is doing and see how you can integrate this into your concept of dominating people

and then we'll talk about how we add a little bit more and a little bit more and what that's allowed me to do is have a long stretch

of exploring my own use of Rope and not run out of things to do because I didn't

everything in the I did all my merit badges in one week we don't want to do that, we want to take our time and we also advise you

I mean you'll learn something from the demonstration as well as listening but you should take a class if you really want to get into

doing bondage in the bedroom as well as hot wax you know it's beneficial

to do it for you to do it with somebody supervising before you just go crazy

and if you're in the LA area there's a lot of really good rope resources and all over the country there's really good rope resources so you can contact

because the ones in Saudi Arabia you might not want to go to those rope resources but yeah and like with anything else

if you were going to take a cooking class you would go on Yelp and check out the class you can check it out with other people in the community and say hey

this guy only says he teaches rope what do you know about him and you know people should be able to be vetted so it's not the worst

thing in the world to kind of move forward on a pretty good clip but it's more fun to take look quickies are a lot of fun

but you can't only have quickies you gotta have that nice long slow hard fuck every once in a while absolutely

Christina have you ever been tied up Christina? Christina Christina talk on your mic

not that much though not that much because you're a wrestler people

yeah I always think there's going to be an earthquake or something so that's a really good point

a lot of people are worried what happens if I am an old guy she's thinking well this guy could have a heart attack what would I do

so I'm also one of those slow people where when I tie somebody up I don't keep them from being able to walk there's a lot of fun things we can do

where your arms and your legs are still free and you still have the experience of bondage and that also creates a situation where I can use

my dominance and my mental and verbal bondage more than the actual tie your hands together and your knees together kind of thing

so plus if your arms and legs are free we can have more fun sexually well that's an important little tip there

to be able to keep people mobile yeah exactly and eventually you can work your way towards other things some of the most difficult bondage

I've ever done with people are people who are really submissive to me and I look them in the eye and I say put your hand out please

we're going to pretend that she's really submissive to me and I say if you drop that who really disappoint me

and four hours later that person was still holding the rope so they were completely in bondage and I didn't tie anything up

so there's a wide range of what you can do mentally versus physically some of it is mind control

absolutely and it's really it's really much more akin to neuro-linguistic programming than really mind control per se

but the cool thing for me is it's always with that person's consent because they can always say yeah okay you know what

I got to go to work now and it's over and that's for me very empowering and for me it's also very important that I know

that level of consent is there because with all these consent violations floating around the world you know I'm really concerned about that

I don't want to be that shrub I don't want to be the guy who's an asshole I mean not an asshole but I don't want to be that kind of asshole well when I say mind control

I mean sort of fantasy mind control you're not really controlling someone's mind but it's so like sexy sometimes to feel like

somebody is controlling your mind and like you know that's that's a major very popular fantasy out there

and you know whether it's being put under hypnosis erotic hypnosis or literally physically shackled

the idea of surrendering control and after all whenever we have an orgasm whether we're dominant or submissive top or bottom

that moment of orgasm is a surrender so you know it's very compelling for a lot of people absolutely yeah maybe for everybody

I think it really is I think a lot of men underestimate the amount of control they lose at that point of orgasm

and all we really ever have to do is watch a video of our o-face we are completely out of out of control

and am I right oh my god just watching men when they're trying to like come on your face

how about you watching yourself when you come do you like to do that um I haven't had

like a video up until yesterday where I came so you just saw a video did you see it

nope not yet you haven't seen it but you came on the video yesterday congratulations good for you

girl and you're gonna email me when that comes out so I can buy it and jerk off to you

I'm really excited it's like the third time I've squirted my entire life and you squirted too holy water

very nice okay so maybe we should tie this girl up well yeah I think so

I don't know what do you think I think we should tie you up a little bit I'm about it you want me to take your microphone

sure I think she's gonna take some of her clothes off too I would think that would be a beautiful idea you wanna do a little strip tease to our

kinkster music hey kinkster the kinkster kinkster by Carmina Formosa

inspired by the bonobo way here she is Lola Bay from Florida

yum whatever you want beautiful yay

cool beans nice let's turn down the music so as I was saying

what I want to know is how can I use this cool stuff here to enhance her sexual pleasure

which will enhance my sexual pleasure right and so my first question to you is how do you like to have sex what's your favorite sexual position

will you say any contortion of missionary so anything where I'm like okay so a very bonobo

bonobo kind of a sex bonobos like to do it missionary okay so that's actually great for me because what that says is

I don't really have to know a lot of fancy bondage to be able to have that face-to-face sex with you in a contortionist kind of a way

with sex so if I were to yes thank you very much if I were to take this little hunk of rope

and rope is you know it's always a piece of rope and there's two ends and there's a middle and so if I were to just take this rope

and I were to just fold it a couple of times right so now I have this little thing here and then

I were to just say oh okay well what if I went over and use this to help facilitate that face-to-face

contortionist kind of a sex so this would be the simplest kind of bedroom bondage which would be something like this

so now now I'm just putting her on my lap but wrapping the rope around her hips

and using that to create more leverage and this way I can even like rotate and rock her around and do all kinds of fun stuff

like that while I'm still looking her in the eye and if I really want to get super cool and sexy I could pull up to her chest and pull her chest

into me and now we're doing the tango and then I could wrap it

around her and doing all of this is a very low risk way to experiment with how using rope

during sex might make things feel better or whatever right so that's cool and it's easy but

it's kind of boring it's not really boring but it's not going to look great when you go to try to do that in the dungeon

so I'm going to show you a really quick and easy way to do something sort of fancy but sort of easy to help with that

same situation so I'm going to take my rope and it can be any kind of rope you can use fancy schmancy

kinbaku jute rope like I'm using this is by happy kitten rope by the way it's really cool stuff

because in addition to being nice jute it's a little bit smaller than average it's 5 millimeters not 6 which means I can be really

mean with it or I can be really nice with it but they also put some essential oils in it so when you use it

it has a smell and what's cool about that is when we have a sexual experience with this rope she's going to have a smell and because of the

smell and the way the olfactory bulbs work in the brain it's going to cement that memory so every time she smells this

rope she's going to remember that awesome sex that we had so it's kind of a cool little thing all right little sapiosexual rope so I'm just going to

the olfactory aphrodisiac so we're going to turn Ms. Lola toward the front here and I'm just going to take this rope

and go in the middle and wrap it around her chest and then I'm just going to put and let's turn you like there we go

and I'm just going to put the end of the rope through the middle of the rope there and then

I'm just going to do that again wrap it around and put it back through that loop again

loop-de-loop loop through the loop and then I'm going to do it one more set of passes underneath her cute little breasts

I have a thing for small breasts yes so pretty petite yes

okay so then I'm going to whip it over her turn her around and look at it and

that's it super quick and easy and at the end I just tie it in the back beautiful so now she has a

cute little outfit but now if we go back to that let's have that sex thing so just straddle my hips real quick but now

instead of doing this crazy rope thing now I can do that thing and I can do that thing and I can do that thing

and we can have a lot of fun like a seesaw just like a seesaw it's like a monkey rocker but it's just Lola

totally so she Lola how do you like that feeling I like it a lot it's nice it feels very secure

secure and yet an adventure you can make some sudden moves yeah and if she tries to get away I can grab her but

this is also something she can wear around she can wear under her clothes she can have that on and then as soon as I get home and it's like

one of these things where I can grab her note and pull her so it's all kinds of fun stuff like that wow

so that's bedroom bondage 101 in 38 seconds absolutely yeah so do you like to grab

yeah oh yeah let's have some applause for professor and Lola

thank you so see you can grab a woman and she likes it sometimes you just have to make sure she likes it

before you grab her and you have to check in afterwards and say okay so was any of that uncomfortable

or unpleasant and it's all good good okay and then I want to know a little bit more not just to stroke my

own ego but what specifically was good and why was it good well I do like being because of the manhandled problem

probably doing being so small I was manhandled my whole life so it's something I'm very used to and then

also I like the sensation of the rope pulling across your skin so when someone tugs really nice and tight you feel it

and it's secure to you because someone cared enough to intricately place those ropes good so those are all things

I put in the back of my mind so that we have another opportunity to have fun together I'm going to remember those things and since I'm not as

good with my memory as I used to I actually do take notes and I have spreadsheets so when I have partners that I play with maybe once or twice a year

you seem like a spreadsheet guy yeah I am I have a spreadsheet where I keep notes about where their limits

are and what they like and why they like it and then when we get back together in a year I say hey so are you still good with X Y and Z

what's changed anything else new and then we modify that wow we put it on little cards

yeah we too actually we have little cards like this yeah I'm just a very paper-free kind of a guy

it's all in the spreadsheet but you know that's a good way to bring some bondage into your

existence in your bedroom without going too crazy about trying to do that so we've got some time

we've got five minutes should we do another because we don't have time I think to do the hot wax we're just going to do that after the break

but maybe one other tie absolutely another little quick tie so kind of moving along that same line we're going to do

almost identical kind of a rope but we're going to do it on her hips so that I have some other anchor points okay look at those

sexy little hips getting tied up by Professor Oni very

I mean for a guy who talks about doing it slow you pretty quick tie there sometimes you got a hurry yeah yeah you know it's time

is money on television exactly right that's what we're doing but when you do this at home you might want to do it a little slower

when I do it at home I really do take my time because it's foreplay it really is yeah so I'm just going to

kind of do this and I'm going to be really nice to her and I'm going to do this instead of doing a crotch rope where I jam this in between

her labia I'm actually going to go on the outside of her labia and then twist it so that I create

a lot of tension capture some blood but I also stimulate the crura of the clit

so that we get a lot more deep clitoral stimulation so now when we're going back to do you feel that on your clit

to be honest my clit is not super sensitive but I know a lot of stimulation good to know

so we're going to go back to our position where she's sitting on my lab oh that's a nice position

very bonobo bonobos love to do it this way but now I have this hip and this chest

and I can really control how her body's working and I can even like lay her all the way back and then pull her hips up

so this is quite a ride yeah she's so tiny that I can just lift her right up right huh

she is she's a perfect little package and the beauty of that is that took just a couple of minutes and you can take longer

and make it more fun but having that little setup on now you can use that to facilitate all kinds of sex positions

where you may be getting it gets to that point where I can't hold you up anymore because my back hurts

well I can just use the rope and so it's kind of like having see I'm getting out of breath because she's so hot that's okay

it's kind of like having a liver like a drug though so those are really simple things you can do you can walk around in them all day

and then you can use those at night to have sex so it's kind of fun and it's kind of easy and it looks pretty too

let's see you stand up again look at this little fashion statement right here Lola Fey

and Professor Oni ready to wear there you go there's your mic

okay how much time do we have now two minutes alright my ladies here

haven't been doing much of anything are you learning talking your microphone oh my god this is so cool

I love how it gives the man the power you know to jerk her around and for women oh I love it when men do that

and you could use this as a top you could put this on a man and use it for the same purpose yeah you know and we very

often on this show we have a lot of femdoms but it's good to have a male dom sometimes you know and showing

it from the boys point of view and that you know we can have dominant nice guys you know

because I mean I think the twitterverse is now reverberating with all of these

sexual harassment claims and a lot of real stories of horror and

and so you know BDSM often provides a way to channel some very difficult

sexual feelings I'm not one of those people that thinks that these are just power feelings these are sexual feelings though

they're mixed with power power exchange is what BDSM is about this is a misuse of power through sex

when it's done as sexual harassment but when it's done in a consensual beautiful give and take way

then yeah it's channel you know violent emotions into peaceful and harmonious

connection one of my mentors talks about letting the beast out but always keeping the beast in a fence

there you go well she's sort of all fenced in there okay we're gonna let more beasts out and

and so you know we're gonna have some fun we're gonna do some hot wax we're gonna do more bondage we're gonna have a Bonoboville communion

with you gals because I don't think you guys are into that but we're gonna do that so you know get yourself whatever you need

a cappuccino or a beer or whatever you need but don't come yet and don't go away we'll be right back on The Dr. Susan

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So featuring Bedroom Bondage with our special guests, Professor Oni and Lola Fay. So I think we're up to the hot wax section of the program having explored some bondage.

And you know, they are connected in so many ways, hot wax and bondage. And one of the ways is there is a Greek myth that says that fire

was first given to us by a kind of half God, half man. Sort of like Jesus, but not Jesus. And his name was Prometheus. And Prometheus was this half God, half man

who took pity on man who was, you know, in the dark. And by man in that case, I mean humanity, but I'm, you know, so brainwashed I say man instead of woman. But yeah, humanity was in the dark,

you could say in the cold and with no light. Maybe we were better off. We were hunter-gatherers. And maybe you could say that fire

learning how to harness the power of fire led to our cursed civilization that might just commit ecocide upon all the living creatures on the earth.

And yet, of course, when the Greeks came up with their myth, their story, civilization seemed like a good idea. Maybe it still is.

I certainly wouldn't survive without it. But yeah, Prometheus gave humanity fire. And for this, he was cursed by the big gods, Zeus, the guy with the thunderbolt,

who of course created fire with his thunderbolts. He would send fire into the forest and he rather liked being the one that did the fire and he didn't like that humans got control of the fire.

And so he declared that Prometheus would have to be bound to the rocks. I forget which rocks, but there were some terrible rocks. And he would have to hang out there on these rocks,

bound wrists and ankles as vultures teared at his flesh. But he would never die. Because, you know, it's the myth.

Anyway, he sacrificed himself to a great degree. He was a kind of a Jesus, not on the cross, but on the rocks. And he was half man, half god,

who gave humanity a certain knowledge that we can do good or evil with. And we have done both. And, you know, I don't know which we've done more of, exactly.

And I'm hoping we don't, you know, destroy, we won't destroy the earth, but destroy humanity in a burst of fire and fury from Mr. Trumple Stiltskin.

Yeah, that would be tragic. And it, you know, we're on, it's always a possibility. On the other hand, fire is a beautiful thing. It's a great thing.

It's a healing thing. And we're going to talk about how it can be a very, very erotic thing with our guests, Professor Oni. May I give you your candle here?

Thank you. And, of course, Lola Fay. And we also have Christine Dupre and Phoenix Dawn is joining us here.

So, and we have Ecor the Wolf, who is in the house. Ecor, you could come up here if you like. Show off your Bonoboville shirt before showing off what's under it.

And so, yeah, now we're going to do a little hot wax. Should we get the tarp? We're going to get the tarp. The tarp.

So, the hot wax is a lot of fun. It's a lot of sexy. And it's been in a lot of movies and stuff like that. And what's really not a lot of fun is trying to get wax out of a carpet.

So, I always go to the handy dandy dollar store and I get a plastic tablecloth, which is a dollar. And you can, and if you get it black, it's sexy. Yeah.

Now it's sexy. And you put that down on whatever surface you don't want to have to sit there and try to pick wax out of. And then you can put your person on that.

And when all is said and done, you just scrape all the wax off onto this thing, take your person off, throw it in the trash and you're good to go. So, we go back to that. What is your reason for being here kind of question?

And so, with hot wax, what's your thing? Why hot wax? Again, being small. I'm cold all the time.

It's really good, honestly. It's always winter in your body. It's always winter. Okay, fair enough.

So, it feels really nice. It just, it's a whole thing. Yeah. So, the thing about wax is you see in the movies all the time

the lit candle and the pouring it right off the candle. And that's potentially a really great thing and it's potentially a really horrible thing because depending on the wax you're using,

it can be hot enough to physically burn the skin. So, I don't like to do that as much. I like to provide a hot-ish wax situation where we get the fear of the wax

and that heightens the adrenaline. And then when the warm, more than warm, less than hot wax hits it's like, because I expect it to be hot but it's not really that hot.

So, I was like, ah, ah, ah, ah. Can you do that? Can you? There you go.

Sounds like phone sex. It's exactly like phone sex. Okay, so, as an audiologist I really like oral sex. Oh, that's right.

Oral sex. Anyway. Do you like the ASMR videos? Yes.

Yes, exactly. Stop it. I'm going to come in my pants. Okay, so, what we're going to do is,

and now she's got rope on so everybody's worried about the rope. The rope is rope. Don't worry about it.

I told her if I get wax on the rope she can take the rope home. It's not a good thing. We won't worry.

We're not worried about anything. We would worry about your little shirty thing. Yeah, we're going to take the shirty thing off. So, what we're going to do

is we're going to have you lay down here on our little fancy schmancy dollar store thing. And we're going to, she had a request of black and red.

So, the red wax, I know pretty well, because, oh, there it is. There it is. Because I've used this dollar store candle before.

And it melts not terribly hot. But even then, it's been a while since I used this. So, I'm going to do this thing where we're going to try to make it sexy.

And safe at the same time. So, what I'm going to do is I'm just going to kind of like run this over her. Make her think I'm going to pour it on her.

But I'm not really going to pour it on her. And while I do that, I'm going to reach my hand up and see how hot it really is.

And it's actually pretty hot. So now, I'm going to blow out the candle. Now, I've removed the heat source. But see, the wax is still very liquidy in there.

Very. Right? And now, I'm going to, now, if you have a short candle,

you can actually put the candle on the person and the heat will transfer through. This is a really enormous, big, girthy candle. I wonder why I picked that one.

I don't know. But anyway, I'm just going to kind of hold this and let it get a little cool. But see, still very liquidy.

And then, I'm going to have you hold my mic for a second. I'm just going to take my finger and I'm going to stick it in the wax and get a sense for how hot it really is.

And it's getting a little bit better. And then, I'm just going to put a little bit of that on her. Now, you see, it's already congealed on my finger. So it's getting pretty cool.

And now, I can take just a little bit. And notice how high I'm going to get. Yeah, the higher the cooler. The cooler, right.

And I'm just going to put a tiny little bit on her. Okay. And I'm going to watch her reaction. And then, I'm going to put my finger on it

and see how warm it is. It's pretty good. Okay. So now, I got these nice legs here.

Nice legs. They're shivering a little. They're shivering a little. And then, you had a nice big blob of red.

People that have vampire fantasies might like this. Does it hurt? No. It looks like she's bloody.

So it's really not hot at all. I have a very high pain tolerance. So to some people, it could be painful. But for me, it's very normal.

And I'm just going to kind of keep moving this around. And then, we're going to put a little bit more on her body. She likes it because she was colder earlier. Yeah.

It looks like blood. It does look like blood. There's a whole pool of it in her belly button. And I'm going to be careful of her face.

But I really like that little dimple right between the collar bones. So I'm going to see if I can fill that up with a little bit of hot wax. Oh, yeah.

Right there, right around her neck. There's a nice little cherry necklace there. So now... That sort of made you flinch a little bit there.

I would say that is where it would be the most sensitive. Yeah. So now, I'm going to go check out my other two candles, which are the black ones that I've not used before.

But we're going to do basically that same deal, right? Here's the black one. So I'm going to hand that to you. And I'm going to take that one.

And we'll start with just one. Now, this is a different candle. It's not a dollar store candle. So I don't have any idea how hot this is.

So I'm just going to do the same thing. It's going to burn a little hotter. But let's see if we can get one or two. Now, I have to be careful with this because the way the thing is set,

I might get the whole candle to blob on her. We don't want to do that. How was that? That's pretty warm.

That's pretty warm. So we're going to wait a little bit more. Why is that hotter? It's a different kind of wax.

It's darker. I think the darker is also hotter. And I also mentioned that it's scented. And ecore winked when I said that.

It's being scented makes it very much better. Now, this particular wax, once I took the fire out, it's already gotten hard already. So we kind of have a little bit of a challenge with this

where it's almost a little too hot. Now, what I can do is while it's still hot, is I can take my hand and put it on there and kind of push the heat into her.

But this is not the ideal wax. That's okay. We can work with it. And I think we can go back.

It's good for accents. It's good for accents. And we'll sort of work with the red as our primary because we have more control over that.

And I'll grab the other one. Here. You say accents like this is a work of art here. It is.

It's a work of art. It's a work of art. These are the weapons of art. These are the paint brushes of art.

So now we've got this cooler wax that actually stays much more liquid longer. So we have a little bit more flexibility with this. And I can just take my fingers and do a little bit of flicking,

a little Jackson Pollock here. Oh, yeah. But I'm also testing as I go. So I'm kind of monitoring how hot this is getting.

She's quite a beautiful canvas. And she's flicking. She's jumping around a lot. I think it's a little ticklish.

And I'm wondering what's going on with that. Why are you jumping so much? I'm particularly cold. Oh, OK.

Oh, she's cold. She's cold. So we're going to get you a little bit warmer. So I'm just going to finger paint now with the wax.

Oh, that's nice. Yeah. Oh, yes. Let's warm her arms, put it on her arms.

I think that's a good idea. Yeah. Just create a little jacket for her. Turn on the heat.

Warm wax. So we're going to do a little bit more on her chest. There we go. And warm her up a little bit.

So that's all rolling good. And we can do all kinds of stuff. And I have seen people who will go 20, 30, 40 minutes of wax and get to a point where they've got a two or three inch thick coating

over the entire person. And then they'll take a knife and carve out details and, you know, designs and stuff like that. I like to have the juxtaposition of skin and wax

so that I can do little things like run my fingers over the skin. And then while the wax is still a little warm, kind of push it down in and move it around while it's on the warm side. Now, you see it's starting to peel off.

Yeah. And depending on the composition of the wax and how much paraffin there is and how slippery or sweaty the person is, it's going to come off easier or not.

This is kind of nice wax because it's going to come off easy. That's good. And while it's still got a little warmth, I can rub it and kind of move it around.

But sometimes you've got to just get it off with a tool. So I have over here a tool. A tool. You have a tool. I have a tool.

We saw that with the balls. Yeah, that's quite a tool you've got there. Thank you. So I also picked up at the dollar store a little wooden spatula.

Now, the cool thing about the spatula is it's got a kind of an edge to it and the edge is handy because I can peel off the wax with the edge but not really put her at any kind of risk. So I can kind of get under there and peel that a little bit

and get it out and then you've got to just clean it off. There again are people who will do this with a knife and that's a more advanced skill set. Yeah.

It also requires a lot more communication with your partner. And maybe you shouldn't be holding a microphone when you do it. You probably shouldn't be holding a microphone when you do it. Maybe you could hold his microphone.

That's okay. Well, he's doing it with fingers. Now I'm going to use my fingers. I'll hold your microphone.

Now I'm going to just use my fingers. You can use both your fingers. Yeah, what you can do is you can use your fingernails and scratch. We did it hair dryer.

Yeah. And we can kind of just grab it and pull it and manhandle it off her. The colder the wax gets, the easier it is to come off. And so if you really want to get somebody clean,

you want to wait until it's clear or it's cool. But you can see it peels off. Oh, look at the one coming off of her neck. It looks so beautiful.

It leaves a necklace around her neck. It'll leave a little bit of tint around her. It'll wash off. It's not going to stay on permanently.

But the thicker the wax that you put on, the easier it is to come off actually because you've got some density there. But if you just simply rub it with your finger, it'll come off.

So we're able to clean her off pretty easily. And what we want to do is get all this wax off after we're done onto our drop cloth so that we can just roll it up and take it home. Now if we really, if we get to a situation where for some reason

you cannot get the wax off the person, you just wrap them up in the drop cloth and you take them home. So you worry about it later. I've got the drop cloth right here.

Wrap it right up. Exactly. And if you have an old Chevy or Buick, you can get seven or eight models in the back

and they're all good to go. Wow. All right. And if they're Lola's size, 12.

But anyway. Sounds like a clown car. Exactly. Let's get her up and put her shawl back on.

You can just get her up with her rope. Because yeah, that's why you put the rope on. Let's put her shawl on because she's freezing. Here's your shawl, Lola.

And we'll worry about the rest of the wax in a little bit. OK. But let's have a hand for Professor Oni and Lola Fay and this amazing hot wax demonstration.

Very beautiful. Very educational. Very sapiosexual. And really good for the holidays when you have

your Christmas votive candles as well as your Hanukkah menorah candles. All right. You know, got to have some fun on Hanukkah.

Hanukkah hot wax. We do that. But you really have a very, you know, a whole art and science to the hot wax.

It's one of those things that if you do it with a little bit of care, you can have a whole lot of fun. And if you do it with no care, you have about 30 seconds of fun.

Right. Because it goes in the wrong hole or it goes too hot or whatever. And everybody's like, ah, hoo, hoo.

It's kind of like trying to do anal too fast. You know? If you do it right, it's a lot of fun. If you do it too fast, you're done for the night.

So this is, right? You like the feeling of hot wax. You requested it, right? Was it for the holiday or because you like it?

I particularly enjoy it, yeah. Yeah. It's because you're so cold, it makes you warm. Yeah.

Or you like how it makes you look. I like know. Well, it's very beautiful to do. Yeah.

And it also, it looks cool on you, but in the combination of bondage to, if you close your eyes and it just feels really relaxing. It's like taking a hot shower,

but with something much warmer. Mmm. And a different substance. It is very liquid until it dries.

Yeah. And so it's again one of those things that if you want to play around with it, it's a good idea to take a class.

There's a lot of people in the area that are doing it. And you get better at understanding the different chemistry of different kinds of wax and different ways to melt the wax and so forth.

Working off of lit candles is super sexy, but it's also the most dangerous way of doing it. And it's the most unpredictable way of doing it. And so you'll see people sometimes use

like pressure cookers and stuff like that to melt big tubs of wax and then use ladles and all of that. And the better you can control the quality

and purity of the wax that you use, the more you can predict the temperatures. And so it's really important when you're doing a lot of this

to not just run to the store at the last minute and buy a couple of candles. All right. I get away with it because I've been doing it for a while.

We're at midnight. We are. And are we going into another half hour? Well, we have to, you know.

What? Wind her up. No, we don't have time for a Bonoboville communion. Yeah.

How much time do we have? So let me get out of the way so you guys can do that. Paper runs out in 15 minutes. Okay.

Well, let's give another hand to Professor Oni and Lola Fay and their hot wax and bondage demonstration and discussion,

which, you know, is really going to come in handy for a lot of you over the holidays when you don't know what to do with those candles.

Okay. So would you ladies like to come to the center of the bed? Sure. Yes.

First of all, this is Phoenix Dawn. This is Phoenix Dawn. She is new to Bonoboville. And she...

Well, come on up here, Christine. Yeah, I'm waiting here. Yeah. I'm waiting here to talk about that.

Well, wait a second, though. Christine, I'd like... I see you're wearing a lot of clothes and I would have a guess

that you could take some of them off. And maybe you could do that. You could show Phoenix Dawn how you do that. So, you know, she...

Music. What kind of music? The kinkster? The kinkster.

Put on the kinkster. That's fun. We have rights to that. And kinkster.

We also have the rights to it. That's right. That's important. It was inspired by the Bonobo way.

There she is. Christine Dupre. Penthouse Pet. And Wrestler.

Whoa. Yeah, girl. Oh, and fishnets. Yeah, take...

Yeah, yeah, yeah. Facebook camera. Look elsewhere. We're going to show some boobs.

Nips. Whoa. Beautiful nipples. And a very nice pierce nipple.

Only one. Only male nipples. Let's get cheeky. Oh, yes.

Let's have a hand for Christine Dupre. All right. So, Christine, you really wowed us a couple weeks ago when you were our featured guest.

And then you showed that you can play well with others last week as we stuffed the Trump turkey. And this week is a little more, you know, like intensive in terms of...

Sort of intellectual. Very demonstrative. But yeah, yeah. Instructional.

And yeah. Yeah, not as much of a party. You know, you can't do that with candles. The thing is if you start throwing candles around,

the next thing you know, you've got a fire. You're going to put an eye out. Yeah. You got to be careful.

You got to be careful with that. I know. I'm like one of those people that break things everywhere I go.

Oh, that's why maybe you need to be tied up, you know, sometimes. All right. Well, anyway.

Got my channel. Okay. So, this is Phoenix. And this is...

Yeah, you should take that off. Take off your sweater. Okay. So, I told Phoenix she would have a

Bonoboville communion. Remember, we have... This is her first time. We have 14 minutes.

I got it. 15 minutes. I got it. Right.

And Phoenix, we're very excited to have you here. Phoenix is from Queens. And she's part Neapolitan and part Puerto Rican. Italian and Puerto Rican.

Okay. Neapolitan port isn't... Naples. Oh, down below Naples.

Yeah, Naples. Napoli, right. I prefer the space underneath the navel. It's a lot of fun down there.

But, you know, speaking of which, I love Puerto Rico. I was there a couple of times last year. Gave a couple of talks on the Bonobo way.

And this guy, the way that he has disregarded the Puerto Rican people needs a good spanking. And I think because you have relatives there, you should spank him.

Give him a spanking. Yeah. Naughty. Naughty guy throwing paper towels at people

that really need serious help that are... I mean, you know, I'm all for hunter-gatherer times. But, you know, you don't want to be thrust into it non-consensually by a crazy hurricane

and then treated like you're from another planet when you're American citizens. So... to you.

Take a knee. Anyway, okay, we did that. So now we're going to do Bonoboville Communion, which is a little ritual that we do sometimes here

in the... Sometimes. Well, sometimes we don't. But usually we do.

Anyway, it involves the lovely elixir of Christmas. Cocoa leaf liquor. Agua Cocoa Leaf liquor. Okay, so now one of you is going to be the altar girl

and one of you is going to be the receiver. I love to receive. You love to receive. Okay.

All right. You want to be the altar girl? I will be the altar girl. You will be the altar girl.

All right. You're going to be the altar girl? So... And your first day at work?

Our first day. Are you sure this is consensual, right? This is 100% consensual. All right.

Yes. So... you got to get that, you know, on tape or on paper these days.

You really do. So, nothing wrong with that. You know, that doesn't take the fun out of it, by the way. I think I'm still more dressed than you, though.

Well, feel free to get more undressed. Take it off. There you go. Oh, goodness.

This is a ritual that requires comfort of body. Okay. So first, Christine, you are receiving. So you are going to...

You are leaving God. You are going to lick... Take a lick to wet it. Wet the altar.

And you sit up straight because you're an altar girl. Were you ever an altar girl? And did you go to church? Were you ever?

No. No, never. Okay, now you are. Okay, this is the church of Bonoboville.

And you're an altar girl. And so, lick the altar first. You are licking the altar. Yeah, you said you're the receiver as opposed to the altar.

Okay. She didn't know what she was saying, right? Okay. But are you okay with that?

You're okay with the licking? Can you stick your tongue out? Is that okay? There you go.

Look at you. You're like a little pussy cat. Okay. Okay.

Yeah, like this. That's good. That's good. You just give it a lick.

There you go. Look at that. That's a beautiful thing. It's a beautiful...

Beautiful. Straight from Queens, by the way. Yeah. Oh, my God.

Okay. You're going to have to do it again, though. Here. Okay.

So there. Now you have to take the salt. The salt. This is the best part.

That's enough. No. I'm just kidding. Go as long as you like.

Yeah. Four or five minutes. We have a clip. Okay.

Well, no. You didn't do this last week? Okay. You're not talking on the microphone, though.

Dr. Soot gets you to do things you've never wanted. You've never thought of doing before. Okay. You've never thought you would do that.

But we did get consent here, right? Yeah, okay. Are you sure? Are you okay?

No, I'm serious. I'm serious because I didn't realize you didn't know what being a receiver is. I'm teasing. Oh, see?

She's a fucking tease. All right. All right. I got it on tape.

I think you're right. Dr. Suzy made me flirt with a porn star. I've never done that. I would never do such a thing.

Okay. Now it's for the waterboarding. She made it. Good.

You'd be allowed to have fun and do naughty things. Right. It's fun, right? I'm your naughty fairy godmother.

There you go. So, all right. Now you're going to go down the looking glass. So now you get between your legs.

You sit down on the floor. You can do that. You're a floor person. I can tell.

There you go. I feel like you've done this before, though. But maybe not. Okay.

No, you did a strip tease last time where maybe I did it off of you as the alter girl. That's right, Christina. Okay.

So now you get to do it. Okay. There you go. Girl, get those legs out.

Boots. Yeah. And now, open, open so she can lay back. Yeah.

Lay back. Lay back. Okay. Okay.

And okay. There you go. All right. Very good.

Don't move now. Open your mouth. You know what? This is a big one.

A big one. Okay. I know. Okay.

Okay. And waterboarding. Bonobo style. Always a crowd pleaser.

All right. So this was your first alter girl experience. How did you like it? This is what the right wing is afraid of.

Very good. It was sacred. It was sacred. It was.

This is the church of Bonoboville. And you have just played the alter girl. And you have received. You have received Christine.

And you did very well receiving. That's great. You're such a giver. You should receive sometimes.

Oh yeah. Okay. Where is your mic? Where's your mic now?

Oh. Christine's always losing her mic. There we go. I know.

I just love to receive. I know. You know. But it's also fun too.

You know. Give it out too. It is. It is.

But I don't know if we have time for you to give right now. Because we're going to have a song. Yeah. And then we're almost done.

And then we're done. I mean. Aside from just telling everybody where to find us. Yeah.

And so we're going to have a little song. Igor the wolf. Igor the wolf. Igor the wolf.

Okay. So Igor is going to. Here. Let me have your.

See how she shakes that thing. Candle. So rise. My son.

Yes. Yes. And look at this Bonoboville shirt. All right.

Hashtag Bonoboville. All right. You can order one of those somewhere. You can somewhere.

And by the way, if you want. Fuck it. Make your own. To wear art.

Don't wear jewelry. Wear art. Get our Volvo art for the holidays. We have Volvo art on the site.

Just go check it out. Beautiful. Brand new from a nice. Beautiful.

By Shelby who was here two weeks ago. Shelby Delaney. Right. Okay.

So do you two lovely ladies want to help him off with his shirt while I hold the candle. And this shirt, it's a great shirt, but what's under it is better. Okay. And I think he's going to do a different song tonight.

Scroll. He definitely needs a microphone. Mike sounds nice. Check one.

Let's see. Give me a track number. Is that six? Six.

Six. I'm good. Everybody good tonight? I'm here.

I say I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

Especially being around all this sexiness. All this beautiful sexiness. Beautiful sexiness. But when we just...

I'm good. He always kidding with all the mixing and scattering. But one thing about it. We got this one going around in life.

You know what I mean? So make this time. You know, just be good in life. No matter what the situation is.

Just know I'm good. Just be good. At all costs. I'm good.

I'm here. I said I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. Yeah, I gotta get off this. There we go.

Yeah. Uh. Get some volume in. Yeah.

Uh. Okay. Here we go. Uh.

Uh. Uh. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Uh. I'm good. I'm good.

Here we go. Check it out. Paulie. Watch this.

Magic. Display 32, 23, 24 in your face. I'm all over the place. And Tiger Woods.

I'm good for many hoods. And they love me. And hate me. But ain't me.

They can't be. It's one of me. But I'm here with y'all. Game off the wall.

M Jackson. Get master like beer. Hey, I play the whole beer. This is my field of dreams.

I work my team. When we build, they will come to us. It's a bus that I bus. Got the whole world riding with me.

Metro. Wolf transit. What can handle it? This is my my top.

Let's call it equal. I'm not going to stay on the hot. In my whip. Topless.

Told you all I'm good. I rock shit. I throw me the ball. Crossing over on dog.

C bar. We bar the winning game. Now know my name. Like met the world.

Going saying, yeah. But it's good. He called the world. I'm good.

I'm good. And I'm so good. Yeah. Yeah.

Yeah. Let me hear y'all say it with me. Come on. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

In the hood. Got him talking. Feeling good for 20s the time. Now relax your mind.

And let your conscience be free. While it lives in me. Plus the big contemporary room. Show enough.

It's cool. We sweet. Fuck the rim. We above the earth.

Heaven best place to be. Give me any seat in the house. I'm good. Out the house.

I'm good. I'm just saying. It ain't always been good. I had to make it that way.

So I can say I'm good. Can you say you're good? Can you say you did what you had to do. To make it out of the hood.

And I commend you. Not to offend you. To do nothing. They used to wake up.

And go around the way. That don't pay. But I know it's late. Spittin' this shit.

On the level of the NBA top notch. Topside mad dog. D5. My team is rough.

We lie. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. You know what? I'm good.

The only reason that I'm good. Because I ride with God. And he ride with me. See I'm gonna please see my teeth.

All crosses. All eyes. Got it. All ways.

Got it. Going on. See I'm a mogul. With muscle.

Grown man, strong samsung. Camping. And I'm Hamptons. With my delight.

Love. Damn she on fire. Then she lit the fire. She told me to.

She said. She said bae. Yeah I'm with that. Cause this moment in time is live and direct.

What you expect? When you good, you good. And when you got it, you got it. So go on it.

Through the world. And be about it. No limit. Percy Miller.

I'm a thriller on the mic. Taking flight like y'all know who she want y'all. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. Yeah.

Yeah. Yeah. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. I'm good.

I'm good. I'm good. I'm good. Yeah, watch this magic display, 32, 23, 24 in the face.

See them all good people. That's Magic Johnson, Michael Jordan, Kobe Bryant, and the face ballin'. Watch this magic display, 32, 23, 24 in the face ballin'.

Watch this magic display, 32, 23, 24 in the face. Equal the Wolf, Bonobo Bill, Dr. Block. Hey, equal the Wolf is good. In Bonobo Bill, on the Dr. Susan Block show.

And, yeah, we're almost out of time, so... Yeah. So, hey. Where can we hear Equal?

Captain Max. Equal's on the radio. Well, okay, we're going to go around with everybody. Man, he's been acting since he was a little boy.

Okay, so... I saw his birth in a movie. It's time to go around with everybody then. All right, so where do we find you, Equal?

Oh, you can fit me with your Facebook, Instagram, Twitter, just fit me in place. Equal, I-K-K-O-R, you're fine. Okay, that's not I-Core, that's Equal.

Equal. And how about you, Miss Christine Dupre? Where is your microphone, young ladies? We've lost the microphone.

Hot Romantic Escapades.com. Okay. And just Google my name, Christine Dupre, and you'll find all kinds of naughty stuff.

Well, she's the only Christine Dupre. Yes. And you can find Phoenix Dawn at the Dr. Susan Block Institute. There she is.

Yeah, pretty much. I mean, you'll be able to find her all over the place. Puerto Rican Italian. I'm Italian.

Absolutely. I'm half Italian. Yeah. And our featured guest tonight are Professor Oni and Lola Fey.

Yay. So, where do we find you? There I am, Professor Underscore Oni. And then we have Lola Fey,

who's a lot more interesting to look at than I am. Yeah, show us yourself one more time, Miss Lola Fey. Get out there in your altogether bondage self. Yeah.

That's a good picture. Stand right up here in the middle. Here, let me hold the mic. So, yeah, stand.

I was just ready for that. And turn. Yeah. What a great little outfit.

I don't know how to put it on. Okay, so where do we find you? Fey, Underscore Lola on Twitter. And then Lola.Fey on Instagram.

And then there's a bunch of sublinks. Sublinks. Is that what you dominate? Yeah.

So, well, there's the Lola Fey. And then there's like my domain. I don't know. Yeah.

What you coming for? I bet. Okay. Well, Captain Max, did you want to pipe in?

Yeah. Well, I just want to pipe in that we're in very dangerous times in America. We have a lot of white people who are not educated,

poor people that have been kept poor. We have, we're an intellectual and cultural war. Like we've never seen. And the other side are called nationalists.

They're owned by a very few people, a few men in the world. They want their country back. None of that stuff like us. We're not going to have that in a Christian America.

Well, sir, you are going to have us in your Christian America. And we will have you in our Christian America, but you're not taking the country away from us. Peace be with you.

We love you. We do. And we're so grateful to be able to be here with you every Saturday night that we can be here,

which is a lot of Saturday nights, almost everyone there is. And we've been doing it for over 25 years. One minute. You know, we're primates, you know, Max and I,

the captain, the prince. And we follow the bonobo way of peace through pleasure. That's right. And, you know, it's female empowerment and male well-being.

And peace through pleasure. And, you know, it's the future, if there is to be a future. So make, like bonobos, not baboons, make love, not war, make love to someone you love tonight,

even if that someone is you. I love you. Consensually, of course, aren't you masturbating? You need to talk with someone about something

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