High Maintenance Roleplay
Internationally renowned sexologist and sex therapist Dr. Susan Block counsels “Steven and Regina,” a young man and an older woman in a four-year relationship, in “High Maintenance Roleplay.”
Subjects of discussion include fantasy roleplay, relationships, age play, taboo turn-ons, erotic obsession, shaving and waxing vs. natural pubic hair, Cougar problems spanking, pigtail fetish, the importance of differentiating between real life and adult fantasies, dressing for sex, playing doctor, erotic domination, bondage, conscious kink, variety, having sex on the dining room table, using tongs as sex toys and appreciating your partner for the adult woman she is, even though you like to fantasize about her being a schoolgirl.
“High Maintenance Roleplay” is a vintage clip from the “SEX CALLS” broadcast archives of The Dr. Susan Block Show (circa 1998). This is NOT a call with actual therapy clients; those are absolutely private and confidential. This is a caller on Dr. Block’s Saturday night live show. For more information, call us at 626.461.5950. For current shows and other events, visit us at https://drsusanblock.com.
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Full transcript of High Maintenance Roleplay on The Dr. Susan Block Show:
Hello Steven and Regina hello. Hi. This must be Steven. This is Steven. All right And is Regina there? Regina's here. Uh-huh. She on the line or I can put her on the line Well, you know, oh, you say I only have one line. I have one line here Okay, we can we can so let's talk to you first. Okay. What did you want to talk to me about?
She thinks it's a problem on my part that I enjoy her completely hairless Completely hairless, right. Oh my god bald bald In a pubic sense in the pubic area, okay in the pubic area and she and she thinks it might be a little bit Maybe I'm liking young girls or something like that. She's uh-huh. Uh-huh. What do you think?
In other words, maybe she doesn't I don't see her as a woman perhaps. Mm-hmm. Well, that's an interpretation You know, of course young prepubescent girls don't have hair there, right? And so that would be a logical interpretation wouldn't you say? Well, yeah, I mean she's being of course very negative about it speaking to you as though it's it's
something that is perverse or anti-social or something and Maybe she just doesn't like doing it. I wonder. I just I don't know. I think sometimes She's doing it and maybe she's presenting it and I don't want her to do it though
Yeah, probably so what is the reason that you like it? Why do you think you like it if you don't like the idea of you know I think it's much to me. It's much more sanitary. I feel it's cleaner and it's a little more Sanitary especially when What do you think you get sort of mites and things in the hair? No
If you I mean if you wash if you if you bathe regularly then then pubic hair is very sanitary There's nothing. It's not gonna give you. There's no special disease. You're gonna get from pubic hair No, I know I just although I guess crabs can more or more likely to grow in pubic hair But if she doesn't have crabs then you know, I don't I don't know. I think it turns you on
Yeah, and you're wondering why she thinks you you you're into prepubescent girls I mean that doesn't mean that you want to be with the actual 12-year-old No, no, not at all, but maybe maybe I like to put her in light as there being you know A little girl to me. She is a grown woman, but she has a little girl side to her. Okay, I can accept that
I don't know if she can but I'm glad that you Fest up to me because I was gonna I was getting a little resentful myself Hearing you say you liked it for sanitary purposes. Okay, and knowing that it it's it's a turn-on for you Or else, you know, this wouldn't be a big deal to you
And and that's legitimate, you know a lot of people are turned on by youth It's I mean, I'm it's not legitimate for you to go after 12 year olds. Okay, right? I'm not encouraging that or supporting that at all, but many people are turned on by youth and And there's nothing wrong with asking your lover to to dress up in you know
Little girl or little boy fashion and to role play things like this Sure, of course she has to like doing it too, right? That means I need to talk to her okay. I have to find out what's going on with her. Oh, yeah Hi, is this Regina? Yes. Welcome to the Dr. Susan block show. Um, thank you
So I just talked with Steve as you know about his little pre-pubescent Girl sexual fantasies and how he likes to see you in pigtails and with a completely shaved pubis Yes, and how somehow this makes you uncomfortable and Resentful and well tell me about that. No, I I mean it was fine for me. I don't mind
having the fantasy that were Once in a while, but he's sort of obsessed with this kind of fantasy and that's I feel like that's the only way He wants to see me. So this is not just a once in a while Elaborate role-play. This is something you you have to get into every time you make love like you have to keep it constantly shaved
You can't let a little growth come in or well if your hair out of the pigtails every once in a while No, he doesn't like it if I do. Ah, I see. Well, I understand You know, that's a lot of hygiene to keep shaved all the time every time you want to have sex Yeah, I know it is but
It's yeah, I know you understand that it's high maintenance it's high maintenance now Is there a psychological reason that it bothers you is it does you do you feel as though he doesn't appreciate you for the Woman you are is it just this just high maintenance problems. No, yeah, I I feel like that too I mean, I think it's fun to play and all but then also there's a point where I want to be recognized as a woman
And I won't I you know, I feel like I want him to see me and Have sex with me rather than just a fantasy every time Yeah What's your fantasy if you could have sex the way you wanted to sometime, you know, just
Ignoring the little girl role play. What would you do? What would you like to do? Well, we we've done my fantasies to actually I Had a doctor fantasy all the time so he'll sometimes be Dr. Jack for me And you have to shave for Dr. Jack. Well, I just already am
Yeah, we'll perform surgeries on the dining room table Surgery examination, okay Yeah, and you like doing that Yes, yes, I enjoy doing that. Oh gosh, that sounds like something you could combine, you know
Oh, yeah, I we do that. But I just feel like lately. It's really this little girl thing has has taken It's become all too all consuming with him and that that's sort of I Just wonder where that's going or why is it constantly that lately? Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. So how long have you been together?
About four years and how long has this been sort of a constant for him? Well, it started probably about a year and a half ago, and then it's kind of built where it's become increasingly prevalent
and Lately, I mean they're Yeah, lately, it's just all the time he wants that and You know fight a rash from shaving so much. Well, I've been waxing. Oh wax. Oh, well, at least that keeps the hair off longer
Yeah, that's good. So do you do other things when you role play this? I mean like spanking? Yeah, we've played around with spanking Do you enjoy that? I Enjoy all of it
So the main problem you have it's not diverse enough anymore. I'm tired of just being the little girl for him Uh-huh, uh-huh, and what would you like to move into? The Dominate Tricks. Ah You want to dominate him? I want to dominate now. I'm kind of tired of the being the little submissive girl
I guess and how would you like to dominate him? Hmm Just free associate What would you like to do with him? Oh, I guess you mean sexually. Well, sure
I don't mean getting him to take out the trash. Yeah, that might be something you do when you're dominating Um Throw him on the bed and tie him down and well, we've we have played with with this We're where I've handcuffed him to the bed and stuff like that
Okay, so you're saying you haven't done stuff like that lately We haven't lately and you'd like to do more of that Yeah, and I guess we could use some new fantasies since we have been kind of open-minded about trying different things Have you ever tried the role play of being a dominant
bitchy aggressive little girl No, that sounds kind of fun actually though That might be a good idea and just taking that perverts ass and throw him in on the bed and you know teaching him a lesson
That's a good idea. Yeah, that is a good idea We haven't we haven't tried that quite that version yet. In fact, I think he needs the spanking Oh, I think he does too. You're right. Have you given him one? Not lately. Mm-hmm
Yeah, that's it. I'll check this out with him, but I I think he might need one. Oh, yeah I'm curious about this. I think you need to give him one not too hard or anything. Don't hurt the little boy, but Okay with a dirty old man or whatever way you want to role play this That's okay. Yeah, I'm curious to see what he has to say about let me pass you back. Okay. Hello doctor. Let's talk to Steve
Hey well, I just had a very nice conversation with Regina, you know girl talking all of course and She seems like she likes doing this little girl thing It's just that she wants a little more variety a little more variety in one direction or another
Well, did she tell you about her fantasy of being with the doctor? Yes And she's happy even going as far as on the dining room table getting the barbecue tongues as the duck bills. Oh my goodness Well, yes She did say that you two have been very creative and and actually she wasn't quite as resentful as you painted her out
Oh, maybe that's because she was on the air. I think she likes you But then I can I can clearly continue with the well Well, whoa, whoa, whoa. Wait wait wait wait. There's a little caveat here. Okay. First of all, you know Just understand there is this high maintenance thing of keeping that pubic area shaved and and and she just wants to know
That you don't think her pubic hair is disgusting and you don't think that she's like, you know Unsexy for being the adult woman that she is and that every once in a while You have to let her know sexually that she's hot as a grown-up Cuz she likes playing the little girl, but she has a grown-up too. Come on, right and and you know
You've been with her four years and she says it's only been the past year and a half or so that you've really gotten into this Little girl thing, right? So she needs a little bit more of the I can see that because also she is older than me Okay, there you go. I didn't know that but yeah So, you know, she might have a little insecurity in that department as all of us do especially if
Especially the older one in the relationship, right, you know So that's number one and number two She's going to play the little girl with you But she's going to dominate you. Oh
She wants to be a dominant little girl and she's going to throw you down It's not quite a dichotomy though. Not necessarily Some little girls can be really dominant. I mean, you know, they can They can do whatever they want. They can be the bully little girl in town
You know and maybe you're a little boy that she dominates or maybe you're a dirty old man that she dominates I don't know you work that out And but I think she needs to do that to to to gain some power in her little girl role that She's really cultivating with you
So cultivated in a in a full way. So she doesn't feel too Demeaned by it, you know darling. We don't feel too demeaned a little demeaning is okay It's a little spicy, but you know to demeaning and it's it's depressing, you know, right? Okay. Well, I appreciate the input And she's gonna spank you. Oh, yeah
What do you think about that? You need a spanking I can't wait to hear about it. Keep in touch with me. Okay. Thank you. All right You're listening to radio Suzy one on the worldwide web
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