“Earning Your RED WINGS”
with Dr. Susan Block from the S3X Calls archives of DrSuzy-Tv
by Dr. Susan Block.
Bloody Mary in the morning? Cherry pie in the afternoon? Riding the Crimson Wave into the night and over the moon?
If you love Red Wings (hold the jalapeño), you’re already salivating. If you don’t, well, you may wish to be excused from this berry-stained episode of Sex Calls.
Though it’s gorily perfect for Halloween!
“Steve” is calling for my help with his fetish for “period sex.” Dr. Suzy as “Aunt Ruby” to the rescue! There’s nothing wrong with having sex – even cunnilingus, aka “red wings,” as Steve confesses he enjoys – when a woman is menstruating. In fact, it can be wonderful – albeit a bit messy – especially for the menstruating woman.
After all, period cramps can be painful, and an orgasm is an amazingly effective, organic painkiller.
Parting the Red Sea with Passion…
And then there’s the almost Biblical, extremely taboo aspect of period sex which I address in my Esther Story featured in The Erotic Edge, mingling the “blood of my affliction with the juice of my affection.”
Period sex can also be a “rare” pleasure for the Bloody Mary-loving man, a man like Steve, the primal wildness, the forbidden (sometimes called “unclean“) flavors, the “war paint” aftermath and especially the earthly, womanly “scent.” Some guys even feel it gives them super powers.
Steve’s “concern” is that he is a self-described “sexually active male,” chowing down on “red wings” at two or three different restaurants – I mean, with two or three menstruating women at a time – well, not at the same time (that would be quite the Halloween gore fest!), but within a few days of each other.
At least Steve wears condoms, but still, blood sports are inherently dangerous for a range of reasons. For one thing, it’s “unsanitary,” I caution our bloodied love warrior. It’s also rather unsafe sex. “I believe you should respect your turn-ons,” I advise, “but I also believe you should respect your life… and their lives.”
Do you think Steve is weird? Perhaps, but this Red Wing Gourmet savors the fact that not many men have a taste for strawberry tamales – partly because it makes his lovers love him even more. “You found a niche,” I concur, “kind of like ‘niche marketing’” – especially when you’re as much on the “meat” market as Steve says he is.
Nevertheless, “everything in moderation,” I caution Red Sea surfer Steve. “Be an ethical hedonist… “While I want you to enjoy your fetish, I hope you can treat these women as real human beings and not just as founts of bloody passion.”
Those last four words seem to give Steve an instant erection. Nevertheless, he agrees that a monogamous relationship would be safest for having monthly period sex with the kind of wild abandon he adores.
Like most Sex Calls, this one is timeless, though it does reference my neopuritan nemesis Dr. Laura Schlessinger. I’m also wearing a cap HBO gave me while my HBO special (rated #1 at the time), was running, so it was probably broadcast live around 1998.
Will Steve find himself the ultimate red wing(s)? Even if he does, will he be satisfied with just one? Find out in this vintage clip from the “SEX CALLS” broadcast archives of The Dr. Susan Block Show (circa 1998). This is NOT a call with actual therapy clients; those are absolutely private and confidential. This is a caller on our live Saturday night live show. For more information, call us at 626.461.5950. For current shows and other events, visit us at http://drsusanblock.com.
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Full transcript of “Earning Your RED WINGS” on The Dr. Susan Block Show:
I'm gonna talk with Steve. Hi, Steve. Hi, Dr. Block. What's going on with you? Oh, I'm just a little quick question for you. Okay, a quickie. I'm a very sexual active male Good. I'm a little concerned over the past year or so. I got myself found myself really enjoying period sex where For instance this morning I woke up and I had blood all over me and I was like thinking
I was in like a Indian war paint situation here. Haha, and you're a red winger I I just love that that period section. I tell you it's like I know that there's an old an old expression a good captain Must always cross the Red Sea. Uh-huh like on that captain. I'm just thinking maybe it's getting a little bit out of hand Why do you think it's getting out of hand? Let me ask you well
Are you doing it with more than one woman? The woman is having her period. Are you doing it with more than one woman? Oh, no two or three at the same time. Oh with their period. Oh, yeah Well, you know darlin, that's not safe sex. That's not safe. No No, because blood carries
The you know, not not not at the same time. I'm sorry Wouldn't mean not at the same time. Well, I don't have three women all having a period Well, actually that sounded at least dramatic enough to be worthwhile, but if you're having Sex with all these different women who all have their periods and even if there are different times you and I are you wearing condoms?
Yes. Oh, you are wearing condoms and you're not going downtown What's in a while? Okay. Well, you know, I usually Suggest that men go down on women and that that's an important part of our play But not when she's has her period unless you're monogamous unless you're monogamous. Yeah, because you know, right blood
I mean the vaginal juices do not carry so much Disease I can't say they don't carry it at all, but blood certainly is a much More likely carrier. Well, that's why I'm getting a little concerned because this is quite turn-off for me and I Know it's probably not the other healthiest thing to be doing
Well, you're right. So, you know, although I certainly believe that you should respect your turn-ons I also believe that you should respect this your life, right and their lives, right? And I Mean you happen to have a turn-on that is somewhat dangerous not not that dangerous I mean if you could find a woman that, you know, you could be monogamous with then
Hey for a week out of the month, you you'd really be in heaven, huh? But you don't I'm not saying you have to be monogamous or Don't don't get me wrong. I'm not dr. Laura here, right? But if you're not going to be monogamous then you have to practice safe sex
Religiously, right? No pun on dr. Laura and her religious advice show, but anyway, if I if You're if you're not gonna go down on her and you're gonna use condoms then Yeah, you know, that's fine Yeah, as long as these women want to have sex on their periods and some women get really turned on by having sex on their periods
Yeah The blood of my affliction with the juice of my affection mingling I think there's something a scent Yes, it is caveman, I understand you darling I know it is it's it's it's it's
Strong smelling woman woman aroma. Oh, yeah. Mm-hmm. Well, I appreciate earthy very earthy Yeah, so But keep this in mind darling, you know You could be getting very sort of fetishistic about it and and while I I want you to enjoy
Your sexual interest. I also hope that you can treat these women as as real human beings and not just as a founce of Bloody passion Although to treat them as a fount of bloody passion is kind of exciting every once in a while, you know Oh, but I just I and what excites me even more is that I guess they're not many men that like that like
And they just get turned on like that. I go for it. You found it a niche. It's kind of like niche marketing. Yes You you really have one there Because a lot of women do like sex on their periods. It eases the pain Something about it. It's it's a pain killer, you know
Mm-hmm. And yeah, and I think you are interested in the nastiness and the forbiddenness of it Which is why I want you to just kind of Keep an eye on yourself about it, you know enjoy it, but Be careful exactly
Everything in moderation be an ethical hedonist, right? Okay. Thank you doctor. You take care. Okay. Good luck to you Redways you're listening to radio Susie one on the worldwide web Need to talk with someone about something you can't talk about with anyone else you can talk to us I'm dr. Susan block your mistress of the airwaves
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