By Dr. Susan Block
\n It\u2019s our 23rd year of lawfully wedded love and lust, and Capt\u2019n Max and I start the celebration early, just the two of us \u201cpartying like bonobos\u201d in bed, climaxing in each other\u2019s arms, the arms we\u2019ve gotten to know so well but, happily, never tired of, lo these 23+ years. Wild and kinky as we are, we\u2019re also very much married, sharing and being \u201cwitnesses\u201d to each other\u2019s lives, creating and constantly recreating the romance that just seems to deepen and grow between us as we age.
\n But no couple is an island. Certainly, we aren\u2019t! As much as we cherish our two-way intimacy, we need our Bonoboville community to keep us from going insane or letting our monogamy turn to monotony. One reason our \u201cmonogamish\u201d (with a hat tip to Dan Savage and the forthcoming Tao Ruspoli film of that name) marriage seems to work is that we share our love, lust and romance with our Bonoboville of friends, lovers and interesting strangers.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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